Hearken, O daughter, and consider, and incline thine ear; forget also thine own people, and thy father's house;

PSALMS 45:10KJV
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What does Psalms 45:10 mean?

Psalms 45:10 calls on a woman, addressed as "daughter," to listen carefully, pay attention, and be willing to leave behind her own people and family. The verse urges her to shift her loyalty and focus away from her past connections as she prepares for a new relationship or role.

In this psalm, a poet speaks to a royal bride, likely at her wedding to a king. The language encourages the bride to fully embrace her new life and responsibilities, leaving behind her old ties. This verse sets the stage for her commitment to her new family and the king, highlighting the importance of wholehearted devotion in this new chapter.

The Hebrew behind Psalms 45:10

  • "Hearken" (שָׁמַע, shamaʿ): This word means to listen with the intent to obey, not just to hear sounds. The verse is calling for active, thoughtful attention.
  • "Consider" (רָאָה, raʾah): This word often means "to see" or "to look at," but here it carries the sense of thinking carefully or reflecting deeply, not just a passing glance.
  • "Forget" (שָׁכַח, shakach): This word means to let go of or put out of mind. The instruction is not just about memory, but about shifting loyalty and priority.
  • "People" (עַם, ʿam) and "father's house" (בַּיִת, bayit): These phrases refer to her old community and family, emphasizing the significant personal change being asked of her.

Why Psalms 45:10 matters

  • This verse clarifies that the bride is being asked to make a decisive break from her past, which was a major step in ancient royal marriages and helps explain the seriousness of her new commitment.
  • The emphasis on listening, considering, and forgetting shows that the change is not just outward but involves a deep, personal shift in loyalty and identity.
  • Understanding this verse helps the reader see the larger theme of the psalm, which celebrates the union between the king and his bride and the new beginning it represents.

Where else these words appear

“forget” Hebrew H7911 · used in 95 verses

  • Genesis 27:45 Until thy brother's anger turn away from thee, and he forget that which thou hast done to him: then I will send, and fetch thee from thence: why should I be deprived also of you both in one day?
  • Psalms 13:1 To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David. How long wilt thou forget me, O LORD? for ever? how long wilt thou hide thy face from me?
  • Proverbs 31:7 Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more.