And the damsel was very fair, and cherished the king, and ministered to him: but the king knew her not.

1 KINGS 1:4KJV
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What does 1 Kings 1:4 mean?

1 Kings 1:4 describes how a young woman, chosen for her beauty, cared for King David in his old age, serving him closely, but the relationship was not sexual. The verse makes clear that while she looked after him and was attentive, there was no physical intimacy between them.

This verse is part of the story where King David is very old and frail, and his servants seek out a young woman to keep him warm and care for him. The woman, Abishag, is brought to serve the king, highlighting both David’s weakened state and the respectful, non-romantic nature of her role. The detail that the king "knew her not" emphasizes that her service was limited to care and companionship, not marriage or sexual relations.

The Hebrew behind 1 Kings 1:4

  • "damsel" (נַעֲרָה, na‘arah): This word refers to a young woman, often unmarried, which underlines Abishag’s youth and the cultural expectations of her role.
  • "cherished" (סָכַן, sakan): This word can mean to care for or attend to someone, suggesting that Abishag’s role was one of attentive service and support, not just physical presence.
  • "ministered" (שָׁרַת, sharath): This word is often used for serving in an official or respectful way, sometimes even in a priestly context, which adds dignity to Abishag’s service to the king.
  • "knew" (יָדַע, yada‘): In this context, this word is a common Hebrew way to refer to sexual relations, so the verse is making it explicit that their relationship was not sexual.

Why 1 Kings 1:4 matters

  • The verse clarifies that Abishag’s role was not as a concubine or wife, but as a caregiver, which becomes important later in the story when her status is discussed.
  • The emphasis on David’s lack of intimacy with Abishag highlights his physical decline and sets the stage for the transition of power in Israel.
  • This detail helps explain later political tensions, as Abishag’s relationship to David is referenced in the struggle for succession between Solomon and Adonijah.

Where else these words appear

“cherished” Hebrew H5532 · used in 10 verses

  • Numbers 22:30 And the ass said unto Balaam, Am not I thine ass, upon which thou hast ridden ever since I was thine unto this day? was I ever wont to do so unto thee? And he said, Nay.
  • Job 22:2 Can a man be profitable unto God, as he that is wise may be profitable unto himself?
  • Job 35:3 For thou saidst, What advantage will it be unto thee? and, What profit shall I have, if I be cleansed from my sin?

“fair” Hebrew H3303 · used in 38 verses

  • Genesis 12:11 And it came to pass, when he was come near to enter into Egypt, that he said unto Sarai his wife, Behold now, I know that thou art a fair woman to look upon:
  • 2 Samuel 14:25 But in all Israel there was none to be so much praised as Absalom for his beauty: from the sole of his foot even to the crown of his head there was no blemish in him.
  • Song of Solomon 2:10 My beloved spake, and said unto me, Rise up, my love, my fair one, and come away.

“damsel” Hebrew H5291 · used in 57 verses

  • Genesis 24:14 And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master.
  • Deuteronomy 22:27 For he found her in the field, and the betrothed damsel cried, and there was none to save her.
  • 1 Kings 1:2 Wherefore his servants said unto him, Let there be sought for my lord the king a young virgin: and let her stand before the king, and let her cherish him, and let her lie in thy bosom, that my lord the king may get heat.

“ministered” Hebrew H8334 · used in 92 verses

  • Genesis 39:4 And Joseph found grace in his sight, and he served him: and he made him overseer over his house, and all that he had he put into his hand.
  • 1 Samuel 3:1 And the child Samuel ministered unto the LORD before Eli. And the word of the LORD was precious in those days; there was no open vision.
  • Esther 1:10 On the seventh day, when the heart of the king was merry with wine, he commanded Mehuman, Biztha, Harbona, Bigtha, and Abagtha, Zethar, and Carcas, the seven chamberlains that served in the presence of Ahasuerus the king,