I wrote unto the church: but Diotrephes, who loveth to have the preeminence among them, receiveth us not.

3 JOHN 1:9KJV
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What does 3 John 1:9 mean?

3 John 1:9 describes how the writer, traditionally understood as the apostle John, had written a previous letter to the church, but a man named Diotrephes, who liked to put himself first, refused to welcome or recognize John and his companions. This verse highlights a conflict in the early church over authority and hospitality.

John is addressing a personal situation where his authority and message were being rejected by Diotrephes, who wanted to be the main leader among the believers. The verse shows that not everyone in the early church accepted the apostles’ guidance, and some individuals, like Diotrephes, acted out of pride or a desire for control.

The Greek behind 3 John 1:9

  • "preeminence" (φιλοπρωτεύων, philoprōteuōn): This Greek word means "loving to be first" or "wanting to have the highest rank." It suggests that Diotrephes was motivated by ambition and a desire to dominate the group, not just by disagreement.
  • "receiveth" (ἐπιδέχεται, epidechetai): This word means "to receive" or "to welcome." In this context, it points to Diotrephes refusing to accept John and his associates, which was a serious breach of hospitality and unity in the early Christian community.

Why 3 John 1:9 matters

  • This verse clears up the idea that early church leaders always got along or agreed; it shows real struggles for influence and authority even among believers.
  • The emphasis on Diotrephes’ desire for preeminence warns about the dangers of pride and self-promotion within a faith community.
  • Understanding this conflict helps explain why John is writing the letter: he is addressing not just personal relationships, but also the health and unity of the church as a whole.

Where else these words appear

“receiveth” Greek G1926 · used in 2 verses

  • 3 John 1:10 Wherefore, if I come, I will remember his deeds which he doeth, prating against us with malicious words: and not content therewith, neither doth he himself receive the brethren, and forbiddeth them that would, and casteth them out of the church.

“church” Greek G1577 · used in 115 verses

  • Matthew 16:18 And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.
  • 1 Corinthians 11:18 For first of all, when ye come together in the church, I hear that there be divisions among you; and I partly believe it.
  • Colossians 1:18 And he is the head of the body, the church: who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead; that in all things he might have the preeminence.