And Judah said, Let her take it to her, lest we be shamed: behold, I sent this kid, and thou hast not found her.

GENESIS 38:23KJV
Know the Bible

Genesis 38:23 (KJV)

What does Genesis 38:23 mean?

Genesis 38:23 shows Judah telling his friend to let the matter drop after failing to find the woman he sent a young goat to as payment. Judah is concerned about avoiding public shame, saying he did his part by sending the goat, even though the woman could not be found.

Judah is speaking to his friend Hirah after trying to pay Tamar, whom he thought was a prostitute, with a young goat. Since Hirah could not find her to deliver the payment or retrieve Judah’s personal items left as a pledge, Judah decides not to pursue the matter further. The verse highlights Judah’s worry about his reputation and his desire to avoid embarrassment in the community.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 38:23

  • שָׁלַח (shalach, "sent"): This word means to send or dispatch. Judah emphasizes that he fulfilled his obligation by sending the goat, showing his concern for doing what was expected, even if the transaction could not be completed.
  • בּוּשׁ (bosh, "shamed"): This word carries the sense of being put to shame or disgraced. Judah’s use of it shows his fear of public embarrassment if the story became known, which helps explain his decision to drop the search.

Why Genesis 38:23 matters

  • The verse clarifies Judah’s motivation: he is more concerned with avoiding shame than with justice or fulfilling his promise to the woman.
  • It connects to the larger story of Genesis 38, where issues of honor, reputation, and hidden actions play a central role in Judah and Tamar’s story.
  • The verse shows a practical side of ancient transactions, where pledges and payments could lead to complications if not handled carefully.

Where else these words appear

“shamed” Hebrew H937 · used in 11 verses

  • Job 12:5 He that is ready to slip with his feet is as a lamp despised in the thought of him that is at ease.
  • Psalms 31:18 Let the lying lips be put to silence; which speak grievous things proudly and contemptuously against the righteous.
  • Psalms 123:3 Have mercy upon us, O LORD, have mercy upon us: for we are exceedingly filled with contempt.

“kid” Hebrew H1423 · used in 16 verses

  • Genesis 27:9 Go now to the flock, and fetch me from thence two good kids of the goats; and I will make them savoury meat for thy father, such as he loveth:
  • Exodus 34:26 The first of the firstfruits of thy land thou shalt bring unto the house of the LORD thy God. Thou shalt not seethe a kid in his mother's milk.
  • Judges 14:6 And the Spirit of the LORD came mightily upon him, and he rent him as he would have rent a kid, and he had nothing in his hand: but he told not his father or his mother what he had done.