Neither shall men tear themselves for them in mourning, to comfort them for the dead; neither shall men give them the cup of consolation to drink for their father or for their mother.

JEREMIAH 16:7KJV
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What does Jeremiah 16:7 mean?

Jeremiah 16:7 describes how, during a time of coming disaster, people will not practice the usual customs of mourning for the dead—no one will break bread or offer the traditional cup of comfort to those grieving for their father or mother. The verse highlights the complete disruption of normal acts of sympathy and community support in times of loss.

In this verse, God is speaking through the prophet Jeremiah to warn the people of Judah about the severe judgment coming because of their unfaithfulness. The verse paints a vivid picture of social breakdown: even the most basic, compassionate rituals for comforting the bereaved will be abandoned. This shows the depth of the calamity—grief will be so widespread and overwhelming that ordinary expressions of kindness and mourning will disappear.

The Hebrew behind Jeremiah 16:7

  • "tear" (פָּרַס, paras): This word can mean to break or divide, and here it refers to the custom of breaking bread to share with mourners. The detail emphasizes that even this simple act of comfort will be withheld.
  • "cup" (כּוֹס, kos): This is the ordinary word for a drinking cup, and in this context, it refers to the "cup of consolation," a symbolic gesture of offering comfort to someone grieving. The absence of this cup underlines the lack of support and compassion.
  • "consolation" (תַּנְחוּם, tanchum): This word means comfort or solace. Its use here points to the deep emotional support that will be missing in the time of judgment.

Why Jeremiah 16:7 matters

  • Jeremiah 16:7 clarifies that the coming judgment will not just bring physical suffering but will also destroy the social bonds that help people endure grief, making the disaster even more devastating.
  • The verse helps readers understand the seriousness of the situation Jeremiah is describing: even the most basic human kindness will be absent, which would have been shocking in a culture where mourning rituals were very important.
  • This verse connects to the wider passage by showing how God’s warning through Jeremiah is not just about punishment, but about the total upheaval of normal life, including the loss of community and comfort.

Where else these words appear

“consolation” Hebrew H8575 · used in 5 verses

  • Job 15:11 Are the consolations of God small with thee? is there any secret thing with thee?
  • Job 21:2 Hear diligently my speech, and let this be your consolations.
  • Psalms 94:19 In the multitude of my thoughts within me thy comforts delight my soul.

“tear” Hebrew H6536 · used in 12 verses

  • Leviticus 11:3 Whatsoever parteth the hoof, and is clovenfooted, and cheweth the cud, among the beasts, that shall ye eat.
  • Leviticus 11:6 And the hare, because he cheweth the cud, but divideth not the hoof; he is unclean unto you.
  • Deuteronomy 14:7 Nevertheless these ye shall not eat of them that chew the cud, or of them that divide the cloven hoof; as the camel, and the hare, and the coney: for they chew the cud, but divide not the hoof; therefore they are unclean unto you.

“mourning” Hebrew H60 · used in 22 verses

  • Genesis 27:41 And Esau hated Jacob because of the blessing wherewith his father blessed him: and Esau said in his heart, The days of mourning for my father are at hand; then will I slay my brother Jacob.
  • Esther 4:3 And in every province, whithersoever the king's commandment and his decree came, there was great mourning among the Jews, and fasting, and weeping, and wailing; and many lay in sackcloth and ashes.
  • Jeremiah 6:26 O daughter of my people, gird thee with sackcloth, and wallow thyself in ashes: make thee mourning, as for an only son, most bitter lamentation: for the spoiler shall suddenly come upon us.

“cup” Hebrew H3563 · used in 29 verses

  • Genesis 40:11 And Pharaoh's cup was in my hand: and I took the grapes, and pressed them into Pharaoh's cup, and I gave the cup into Pharaoh's hand.
  • Psalms 16:5 The LORD is the portion of mine inheritance and of my cup: thou maintainest my lot.
  • Jeremiah 25:17 Then took I the cup at the LORD'S hand, and made all the nations to drink, unto whom the LORD had sent me: