Wherefore dost thou forget us for ever, and forsake us so long time?

LAMENTATIONS 5:20KJV
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What does Lamentations 5:20 mean?

Lamentations 5:20 voices a deep sense of abandonment, asking God why He seems to have forgotten and forsaken His people for such a long time. The verse expresses the pain and confusion of feeling cut off from God’s care and presence.

The speaker is the community of Jerusalem, devastated after the Babylonian conquest. They are crying out to God in prayer, wrestling with the length and depth of their suffering. The question is not just about time but about the fear that God’s absence might be permanent, showing the raw honesty of their grief and longing for restoration.

The Hebrew behind Lamentations 5:20

  • "forget" (שָׁכַח, shakach): This word often means to lose sight of or neglect, not just a lapse in memory. The people feel as if God has actively stopped caring for them.
  • "ever" (נֶצַח, netsach): This word can mean "forever" or "perpetually," highlighting the fear that their suffering and God’s silence might never end.
  • "forsake" (עָזַב, azav): This word means to abandon or leave behind, suggesting a deep sense of being deserted by someone who was once close.
  • "long" (אֹרֶךְ, orekh) and "time" (יֹום, yom): Together, these words emphasize the duration of their hardship, not just its intensity.

Why Lamentations 5:20 matters

  • Lamentations 5:20 shows that it is honest and acceptable to bring feelings of abandonment and confusion to God, even in prayer.
  • The verse highlights the depth of the people’s suffering after Jerusalem’s destruction, making their hope for God’s return even more poignant in the next verses.
  • The language used connects this moment to other biblical laments, helping readers see a pattern of wrestling with God in times of crisis rather than silent resignation.

Where else these words appear

“ever” Hebrew H5331 · used in 42 verses

  • 1 Samuel 15:29 And also the Strength of Israel will not lie nor repent: for he is not a man, that he should repent.
  • Psalms 16:11 Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.
  • Proverbs 21:28 A false witness shall perish: but the man that heareth speaketh constantly.

“long” Hebrew H753 · used in 90 verses

  • Genesis 6:15 And this is the fashion which thou shalt make it of: The length of the ark shall be three hundred cubits, the breadth of it fifty cubits, and the height of it thirty cubits.
  • 1 Kings 6:3 And the porch before the temple of the house, twenty cubits was the length thereof, according to the breadth of the house; and ten cubits was the breadth thereof before the house.
  • Ezekiel 40:36 The little chambers thereof, the posts thereof, and the arches thereof, and the windows to it round about: the length was fifty cubits, and the breadth five and twenty cubits.

“forget” Hebrew H7911 · used in 95 verses

  • Genesis 27:45 Until thy brother's anger turn away from thee, and he forget that which thou hast done to him: then I will send, and fetch thee from thence: why should I be deprived also of you both in one day?
  • Psalms 13:1 To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David. How long wilt thou forget me, O LORD? for ever? how long wilt thou hide thy face from me?
  • Proverbs 31:5 Lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the judgment of any of the afflicted.