Which forsaketh the guide of her youth, and forgetteth the covenant of her God.

PROVERBS 2:17KJV
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What does Proverbs 2:17 mean?

Proverbs 2:17 describes a person who abandons the trusted guide from her younger years and forgets the solemn agreement she made with God. The verse warns about someone turning away from foundational relationships and commitments, especially those tied to faithfulness and promises before God.

In the context of Proverbs, a father is speaking to his son, urging him to seek wisdom and avoid the path of those who act unfaithfully. The verse uses the image of a woman who leaves her husband (“the guide of her youth”) and breaks her covenant with God, illustrating the danger of forsaking both personal and spiritual commitments.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 2:17

  • "forsaketh" (עָזַב, ‘azav): This word means to leave, abandon, or desert. It highlights a deliberate turning away, not just a casual forgetting.
  • "guide" (אַלּוּף, alluph): Often means a close companion or leader, here referring to a husband or trusted partner from youth.
  • "youth" (נְעוּרִים, ne‘urim): Refers to the early, formative years, emphasizing the depth and length of the relationship being abandoned.
  • "forgetteth" (שָׁכַח, shakach): Means to ignore or neglect, not just a lapse in memory, but a willful disregard.
  • "covenant" (בְּרִית, berith): A binding agreement or promise, especially one made before God, showing the seriousness of what is being broken.
  • "God" (אֱלֹהִים, Elohim): The standard Hebrew word for God, underscoring that the broken promise is not just between people, but involves God Himself.

Why Proverbs 2:17 matters

  • Proverbs 2:17 clarifies that unfaithfulness is not just a personal issue but also a spiritual one, as it involves breaking a covenant with God.
  • The verse emphasizes the seriousness of abandoning long-standing, trusted relationships, especially those formed in youth and before God.
  • In the wider passage, this warning fits into the larger theme of Proverbs 2, which urges the reader to value wisdom and avoid the destructive paths of those who reject it.

Where else these words appear

“guide” Hebrew H441 · used in 29 verses

  • Genesis 36:15 These were dukes of the sons of Esau: the sons of Eliphaz the firstborn son of Esau; duke Teman, duke Omar, duke Zepho, duke Kenaz,
  • Genesis 36:41 Duke Aholibamah, duke Elah, duke Pinon,
  • Psalms 144:14 That our oxen may be strong to labour; that there be no breaking in, nor going out; that there be no complaining in our streets.

“youth” Hebrew H5271 · used in 46 verses

  • Genesis 8:21 And the LORD smelled a sweet savour; and the LORD said in his heart, I will not again curse the ground any more for man's sake; for the imagination of man's heart is evil from his youth; neither will I again smite any more every thing living, as I have done.
  • Psalms 127:4 As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.
  • Jeremiah 48:11 Moab hath been at ease from his youth, and he hath settled on his lees, and hath not been emptied from vessel to vessel, neither hath he gone into captivity: therefore his taste remained in him, and his scent is not changed.

“forgetteth” Hebrew H7911 · used in 95 verses

  • Genesis 27:45 Until thy brother's anger turn away from thee, and he forget that which thou hast done to him: then I will send, and fetch thee from thence: why should I be deprived also of you both in one day?
  • Psalms 13:1 To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David. How long wilt thou forget me, O LORD? for ever? how long wilt thou hide thy face from me?
  • Proverbs 31:7 Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more.