Surely I have behaved and quieted myself, as a child that is weaned of his mother: my soul is even as a weaned child.

PSALMS 131:2KJV
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What does Psalms 131:2 mean?

Psalms 131:2 describes the writer’s soul as calm and content, comparing himself to a weaned child who no longer cries for his mother’s milk but rests quietly. The verse expresses a deep sense of inner peace and trust, free from restless longing or pride.

King David is speaking in this psalm, reflecting on his own attitude before God. He uses the image of a weaned child to show that his soul is no longer demanding or anxious, but has learned to be still and satisfied. This verse comes in the context of David humbling himself and letting go of ambitions or concerns beyond his control.

The Hebrew behind Psalms 131:2

  • Behaved (שָׁוָה, shavah): This word often means to make level or equal. Here, it suggests David has brought his soul into a balanced, settled state, not letting emotions run wild.
  • Quieted (דָּמַם, damam): This word means to be still or silent. David is saying he has intentionally calmed his inner life, not just outward actions.
  • Weaned (גָּמַל, gamal): To be weaned means to move past dependence on a mother’s milk. David uses this as a picture of spiritual maturity—his soul is not demanding what it once did.
  • Soul (נֶפֶשׁ, nefesh): This word refers to the whole inner self—feelings, desires, and life itself. David is describing a deep, personal peace.

Why Psalms 131:2 matters

  • Psalms 131:2 clarifies that spiritual maturity often looks like quiet trust, not striving or ambition, which can be misunderstood as passivity or lack of drive.
  • The verse’s image of a weaned child highlights a shift from demanding to resting, showing that true contentment comes from letting go of restless desires.
  • This verse connects to the rest of the psalm, where David rejects pride and self-exaltation, emphasizing humility and trust in God as the foundation for inner peace.

Where else these words appear

“behaved” Hebrew H7737 · used in 21 verses

  • 2 Samuel 22:34 He maketh my feet like hinds' feet: and setteth me upon my high places.
  • Psalms 18:33 He maketh my feet like hinds' feet, and setteth me upon my high places.
  • Proverbs 27:15 A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.

“quieted” Hebrew H1826 · used in 29 verses

  • Exodus 15:16 Fear and dread shall fall upon them; by the greatness of thine arm they shall be as still as a stone; till thy people pass over, O LORD, till the people pass over, which thou hast purchased.
  • Psalms 4:4 Stand in awe, and sin not: commune with your own heart upon your bed, and be still. Selah.
  • Jeremiah 47:6 O thou sword of the LORD, how long will it be ere thou be quiet? put up thyself into thy scabbard, rest, and be still.

“weaned” Hebrew H1580 · used in 32 verses

  • Genesis 21:8 And the child grew, and was weaned: and Abraham made a great feast the same day that Isaac was weaned.
  • 2 Samuel 22:21 The LORD rewarded me according to my righteousness: according to the cleanness of my hands hath he recompensed me.
  • Psalms 142:7 Bring my soul out of prison, that I may praise thy name: the righteous shall compass me about; for thou shalt deal bountifully with me.