And Absalom said to Hushai, Is this thy kindness to thy friend? why wentest thou not with thy friend?

2 SAMUEL 16:17KJV
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2 Samuel 16:17 (KJV)

What does 2 Samuel 16:17 mean?

2 Samuel 16:17 shows Absalom questioning Hushai’s loyalty, asking why Hushai did not stay with his “friend” (meaning David) if he was truly loyal to him. Absalom is suspicious of Hushai’s motives for coming to him instead of remaining with David, who was both Hushai’s friend and the rightful king.

Absalom, David’s son, has just taken over Jerusalem after rebelling against his father. Hushai, who was known as a loyal friend and advisor to David, approaches Absalom. Absalom challenges Hushai’s actions, essentially asking if this is how Hushai shows “kindness” (loyalty or steadfast love) to David by not following him in exile. The verse highlights the tension and uncertainty as Absalom tries to figure out whether Hushai is a traitor or has genuinely switched sides.

The Hebrew behind 2 Samuel 16:17

  • חֶסֶד (chesed, “kindness”): This word often means loyal love, faithfulness, or steadfast kindness, especially in the context of relationships or covenants. Absalom’s use of חֶסֶד suggests he is questioning the depth and meaning of Hushai’s loyalty to David.
  • רֵעַ (re’a, “friend”): This word can mean friend, companion, or associate. Absalom repeats it to emphasize Hushai’s close relationship with David and to underline the apparent betrayal.
  • הָלַךְ (halakh, “wentest”): This verb means to go or walk. Absalom’s question, “why wentest thou not with thy friend?” presses Hushai on why he did not physically accompany David, highlighting the expected loyalty in action, not just in word.

Why 2 Samuel 16:17 matters

  • The verse clarifies the suspicion and tension in Absalom’s court, showing that even those who join him are not immediately trusted, especially if they were known supporters of David.
  • By focusing on the words for “kindness” and “friend,” the verse emphasizes the importance of loyalty and faithfulness in personal and political relationships in ancient Israel.
  • This moment sets up the dramatic tension for the following events, as readers know Hushai’s true loyalty remains with David, making his presence in Absalom’s court a risky act of espionage.

Where else these words appear

“Hushai” Hebrew H2365 · used in 13 verses

  • 2 Samuel 15:32 And it came to pass, that when David was come to the top of the mount, where he worshipped God, behold, Hushai the Archite came to meet him with his coat rent, and earth upon his head:
  • 2 Samuel 17:5 Then said Absalom, Call now Hushai the Archite also, and let us hear likewise what he saith.
  • 2 Samuel 17:14 And Absalom and all the men of Israel said, The counsel of Hushai the Archite is better than the counsel of Ahithophel. For the LORD had appointed to defeat the good counsel of Ahithophel, to the intent that the LORD might bring evil upon Absalom.

“Absalom” Hebrew H53 · used in 92 verses

  • 2 Samuel 3:3 And his second, Chileab, of Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite; and the third, Absalom the son of Maacah the daughter of Talmai king of Geshur;
  • 2 Samuel 15:1 And it came to pass after this, that Absalom prepared him chariots and horses, and fifty men to run before him.
  • 2 Samuel 17:18 Nevertheless a lad saw them, and told Absalom: but they went both of them away quickly, and came to a man's house in Bahurim, which had a well in his court; whither they went down.