And when the king's decree which he shall make shall be published throughout all his empire,(for it is great,) all the wives shall give to their husbands honour, both to great and small.

ESTHER 1:20KJV
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What does Esther 1:20 mean?

Esther 1:20 says that when the king’s command is announced throughout his vast kingdom, all wives will show respect and honor to their husbands, no matter their social status. The verse describes the expected outcome of the royal decree: it will set a standard for household relationships across the empire.

In this scene, royal advisors are speaking to King Ahasuerus (Xerxes) after Queen Vashti refused his order. They suggest that making Vashti’s punishment public will influence all families in the Persian Empire. The verse highlights the advisors’ belief that the king’s actions will shape social norms, reaching “both to great and small”—meaning every household, from the highest to the most humble.

The Hebrew behind Esther 1:20

  • “Decree” (פִּתְגָם, pitgam): This word means an official edict or proclamation. Using this term shows the seriousness and formality of the king’s order, making clear it is not just a suggestion but a binding command.
  • “Empire” (מַלְכוּת, malkhut): This word refers to the entire realm or kingdom under the king’s rule. The verse emphasizes the vastness of the Persian Empire, suggesting the decree’s wide-reaching impact.
  • “Wives” (אִשָּׁה, ishah) and “husbands” (בַּעַל, ba‘al): These words are the common terms for wife and husband, but “ba‘al” can also mean “master” or “lord.” This highlights the cultural expectation of the husband’s authority in the household at that time.
  • “Honour” (יְקָר, yeqar): This word means respect, esteem, or value. The verse is about wives giving visible respect to their husbands, which the advisors present as a social good.

Why Esther 1:20 matters

  • Esther 1:20 clarifies that the king’s decree was intended to influence private family life, not just court politics, showing how royal actions could shape everyday customs.
  • The verse reveals the advisors’ concern about social order and their belief that public discipline of the queen would reinforce traditional roles throughout the empire.
  • Understanding this verse helps explain the dramatic tension at the start of Esther: Vashti’s refusal and the king’s response set the stage for Esther’s rise and the unfolding events that follow.

Where else these words appear

“decree” Hebrew H6599 · used in 2 verses

  • Ecclesiastes 8:11 Because sentence against an evil work is not executed speedily, therefore the heart of the sons of men is fully set in them to do evil.

“honour” Hebrew H3366 · used in 15 verses

  • Esther 1:4 When he shewed the riches of his glorious kingdom and the honour of his excellent majesty many days, even an hundred and fourscore days.
  • Esther 6:9 And let this apparel and horse be delivered to the hand of one of the king's most noble princes, that they may array the man withal whom the king delighteth to honour, and bring him on horseback through the street of the city, and proclaim before him, Thus shall it be done to the man whom the king delighteth to honour.
  • Psalms 49:20 Man that is in honour, and understandeth not, is like the beasts that perish.

“husbands” Hebrew H1167 · used in 78 verses

  • Genesis 14:13 And there came one that had escaped, and told Abram the Hebrew; for he dwelt in the plain of Mamre the Amorite, brother of Eshcol, and brother of Aner: and these were confederate with Abram.
  • Judges 9:18 And ye are risen up against my father's house this day, and have slain his sons, threescore and ten persons, upon one stone, and have made Abimelech, the son of his maidservant, king over the men of Shechem, because he is your brother;)
  • Proverbs 16:22 Understanding is a wellspring of life unto him that hath it: but the instruction of fools is folly.

“empirefor” Hebrew H4438 · used in 82 verses

  • Numbers 24:7 He shall pour the water out of his buckets, and his seed shall be in many waters, and his king shall be higher than Agag, and his kingdom shall be exalted.
  • 2 Chronicles 33:13 And prayed unto him: and he was intreated of him, and heard his supplication, and brought him again to Jerusalem into his kingdom. Then Manasseh knew that the LORD he was God.
  • Esther 6:8 Let the royal apparel be brought which the king useth to wear, and the horse that the king rideth upon, and the crown royal which is set upon his head: