Genesis 29:14 (KJV)

What does Genesis 29:14 mean?

Genesis 29:14 describes Laban welcoming Jacob as family, saying, "Surely thou art my bone and my flesh," and allowing him to stay for a month. Laban is recognizing Jacob as a close relative and offering him hospitality during his stay.

In this verse, Laban is speaking to Jacob, who has traveled from his home to find his mother's relatives. By calling Jacob "my bone and my flesh," Laban is using a common ancient expression to affirm their kinship. The verse sets the stage for Jacob's extended stay with Laban, which will become important in the following events.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 29:14

• "Bone" (עֶצֶם, etsem) and "flesh" (בָּשָׂר, basar) are used together here to strongly emphasize the idea of close family connection, not just distant relation.
• "Abode" (יָשַׁב, yashav) means to dwell or stay, showing that Jacob is not just visiting briefly but settling in for a time.
• "Space" (יָמִים, yamim) literally means "days," but in this context, it refers to a period of time, clarified as "a month" (חֹדֶשׁ, chodesh).

Why Genesis 29:14 matters

• This verse clarifies that Jacob is being fully accepted into Laban's household, not treated as an outsider or stranger.
• The language of "bone and flesh" highlights the importance of family ties in the ancient world, especially in matters of hospitality and trust.
• The mention of Jacob staying for a month sets up the next part of the story, where Laban will propose terms for Jacob's continued service.