Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

GENESIS 3:16KJV
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What does Genesis 3:16 mean?

Genesis 3:16 describes how, after the first humans disobeyed God, God tells the woman that her pain and sorrow in childbirth will be greatly increased, and that her desire will be for her husband, who will rule over her. This verse explains part of the consequences for the woman as a result of the events in the Garden of Eden.

In this verse, God is speaking directly to the woman (Eve) after Adam and Eve have eaten from the forbidden tree. The situation is one of judgment and consequence following their choice. The verse highlights both physical pain in childbirth and a shift in the relationship between the woman and her husband, introducing sorrow and a new dynamic of desire and authority.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 3:16

  • The word for "sorrow" is עִצָּבוֹן (ʿiṣāḇōn), which means pain, hardship, or toil. This emphasizes that the consequence is not just physical pain but also emotional or life hardship.
  • The word for "conception" is הֵרָיוֹן (hērāyōn), which refers specifically to pregnancy. The doubling of the idea of pain and conception suggests both the process of becoming pregnant and the act of giving birth are affected.
  • The word for "desire" is תְּשׁוּקָה (tešūqāh), which can mean longing or turning toward. This word is rare in the Hebrew Bible and its meaning here is debated, but it often carries the sense of a strong longing or dependence.
  • The word for "rule" is מָשַׁל (māšal), meaning to have authority or to govern. This word indicates a kind of leadership or dominance, not just casual influence.

Why Genesis 3:16 matters

  • Genesis 3:16 is often misunderstood as prescribing how relationships should be, but in context, it describes the brokenness and struggle that result from human disobedience.
  • The verse connects directly to the wider story of Genesis 3, where both the man and the woman experience consequences that affect their lives and relationships.
  • The specific Hebrew words highlight that the sorrow involves more than just physical pain, and that the relational dynamic described is part of the fallout from the events in Eden, not the original design.

Where else these words appear

“sorrow” Hebrew H6093 · used in 3 verses

  • Genesis 3:17 And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life;
  • Genesis 5:29 And he called his name Noah, saying, This same shall comfort us concerning our work and toil of our hands, because of the ground which the LORD hath cursed.

“conception” Hebrew H2032 · used in 3 verses

  • Ruth 4:13 So Boaz took Ruth, and she was his wife: and when he went in unto her, the LORD gave her conception, and she bare a son.
  • Hosea 9:11 As for Ephraim, their glory shall fly away like a bird, from the birth, and from the womb, and from the conception.

“desire” Hebrew H8669 · used in 3 verses

  • Genesis 4:7 If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him.
  • Song of Solomon 7:10 I am my beloved's, and his desire is toward me.

“sorrow” Hebrew H6089 · used in 7 verses

  • Psalms 127:2 It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep.
  • Proverbs 10:22 The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it.
  • Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.