Then will we give our daughters unto you, and we will take your daughters to us, and we will dwell with you, and we will become one people.

GENESIS 34:16KJV
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What does Genesis 34:16 mean?

Genesis 34:16 records a proposal from Jacob’s sons to the men of Shechem, offering to exchange daughters in marriage and live together as one people if the men agree to a certain condition. The verse shows a negotiation about intermarriage and forming a single, unified community.

In this scene, the sons of Jacob are speaking to Hamor and Shechem after the incident with their sister Dinah. They suggest that if the men of Shechem meet their requirement (which, from the context, is circumcision), then both groups will intermarry and settle together. The verse highlights a moment of apparent openness, but it is part of a larger, tense negotiation.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 34:16

  • "give" (נָתַן, natan): This word means to hand over or grant, emphasizing an intentional act of offering their daughters in marriage.
  • "daughters" (בַּת, bat): Used twice, this word underlines the mutual exchange—both groups would give and receive daughters, stressing equality in the proposed relationship.
  • "take" (לָקַח, laqach): This word means to receive or take, showing that Jacob’s family would also accept daughters from Shechem, not just give their own.
  • "dwell" (יָשַׁב, yashav): This word means to settle or live, indicating a lasting, shared life together rather than a temporary arrangement.
  • "one" (אֶחָד, echad): This word means united or single, pointing to the idea of becoming a single, blended people rather than remaining separate groups.
  • "people" (עַם, am): This word refers to a community or nation, highlighting the significance of merging two distinct groups into one.

Why Genesis 34:16 matters

  • The verse clarifies that the sons of Jacob are not just proposing a marriage alliance but a full blending of families and cultures, which would have major implications for identity and tradition.
  • The use of mutual language ("give" and "take" daughters) emphasizes that the offer is presented as an equal partnership, not a one-sided arrangement.
  • Understanding this verse in context helps explain the later actions of Jacob’s sons, showing that their words here are part of a larger plan rather than a straightforward offer.