And the young man deferred not to do the thing, because he had delight in Jacob's daughter: and he was more honourable than all the house of his father.

GENESIS 34:19KJV
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What does Genesis 34:19 mean?

Genesis 34:19 describes Shechem’s readiness to accept the condition set by Jacob’s sons because he wanted to marry Dinah, Jacob’s daughter. The narrator also identifies Shechem as a man held in high regard among his father’s household.

The “thing” Shechem did was to be circumcised, as the brothers had demanded in verse 15. Circumcision was the removal of the foreskin from the male sex organ. The statement about Shechem’s standing helps explain why his agreement would carry weight in the town.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 34:19

  • “delight” — חָפֵץ (chafets): This word can express desire or a strong attraction. Here it gives Shechem’s reason for acting without delay.
  • “honourable” — כָּבֵד (kaved): This word can describe someone who is respected or held in high regard. It points to Shechem’s standing among his father’s people.

Why Genesis 34:19 matters

  • Shechem’s desire for Dinah follows his earlier violence against her. Verse 2 says that Shechem took Dinah and forced himself on her; verse 19 describes his desire in that troubling setting.
  • The brothers’ condition was part of a plan, not an honest agreement. Verse 13 says they answered Shechem and his father deceitfully.
  • Shechem’s high standing helps explain the response of the town’s men. In verses 20–24, Shechem and his father persuade them to accept circumcision too.

Where else these words appear

“deferred” Hebrew H309 · used in 17 verses

  • Genesis 24:56 And he said unto them, Hinder me not, seeing the LORD hath prospered my way; send me away that I may go to my master.
  • Judges 5:28 The mother of Sisera looked out at a window, and cried through the lattice, Why is his chariot so long in coming? why tarry the wheels of his chariots?
  • Proverbs 23:30 They that tarry long at the wine; they that go to seek mixed wine.

“delight” Hebrew H2654 · used in 71 verses

  • Numbers 14:8 If the LORD delight in us, then he will bring us into this land, and give it us; a land which floweth with milk and honey.
  • Job 21:14 Therefore they say unto God, Depart from us; for we desire not the knowledge of thy ways.
  • Song of Solomon 2:7 I charge you, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, and by the hinds of the field, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.

“honourable” Hebrew H3513 · used in 109 verses

  • Genesis 13:2 And Abram was very rich in cattle, in silver, and in gold.
  • 2 Samuel 10:3 And the princes of the children of Ammon said unto Hanun their lord, Thinkest thou that David doth honour thy father, that he hath sent comforters unto thee? hath not David rather sent his servants unto thee, to search the city, and to spy it out, and to overthrow it?
  • Proverbs 12:9 He that is despised, and hath a servant, is better than he that honoureth himself, and lacketh bread.