That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words.

PROVERBS 7:5KJV
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What does Proverbs 7:5 mean?

Proverbs 7:5 says that wisdom and understanding will protect a person from being led astray by a woman who is not his wife, especially one who uses flattering words to entice him. The verse warns about the danger of seductive speech from someone outside the bounds of a faithful relationship.

In this part of Proverbs, a father is speaking to his son, urging him to value wisdom as a safeguard against temptation. The “strange woman” refers to someone outside the family or marriage covenant, and the warning is about being drawn in by persuasive or seductive language. This verse is part of a larger section where the father describes the real-life consequences of ignoring wise instruction.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 7:5

  • “keep” (שָׁמַר, shamar): This word means to guard or protect, emphasizing an active effort to stay safe, not just passive avoidance.
  • “strange” (זָר, zar) and “stranger” (נָכְרִי, nokhri): Both words refer to someone who is not part of one’s family or covenant community, highlighting the idea of someone foreign or outside proper boundaries.
  • “flattereth” (חָלַק, chalaq): This word means to make smooth or to flatter, pointing to speech that is persuasive, charming, or manipulative.
  • “words” (אֵמֶר, emer): This simply means spoken words or sayings, drawing attention to the power of what is said.

Why Proverbs 7:5 matters

  • Proverbs 7:5 clarifies that the real danger is not just physical temptation but the power of persuasive or flattering words.
  • The verse shows that wisdom is meant to be a practical defense in everyday life, not just abstract knowledge.
  • This warning fits into the broader message of Proverbs 7, where the father tries to prepare his son for real challenges he will face, making the advice personal and urgent.

Where else these words appear

“stranger” Hebrew H5237 · used in 45 verses

  • Genesis 31:15 Are we not counted of him strangers? for he hath sold us, and hath quite devoured also our money.
  • 1 Kings 11:1 But king Solomon loved many strange women, together with the daughter of Pharaoh, women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Zidonians, and Hittites;
  • Proverbs 2:16 To deliver thee from the strange woman, even from the stranger which flattereth with her words;

“words” Hebrew H561 · used in 47 verses

  • Genesis 49:21 Naphtali is a hind let loose: he giveth goodly words.
  • Job 33:3 My words shall be of the uprightness of my heart: and my lips shall utter knowledge clearly.
  • Proverbs 4:20 My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings.

“flattereth” Hebrew H2505 · used in 64 verses

  • Genesis 14:15 And he divided himself against them, he and his servants, by night, and smote them, and pursued them unto Hobah, which is on the left hand of Damascus.
  • 1 Kings 18:6 So they divided the land between them to pass throughout it: Ahab went one way by himself, and Obadiah went another way by himself.
  • Proverbs 2:16 To deliver thee from the strange woman, even from the stranger which flattereth with her words;

“strange” Hebrew H2114 · used in 76 verses

  • Exodus 29:33 And they shall eat those things wherewith the atonement was made, to consecrate and to sanctify them: but a stranger shall not eat thereof, because they are holy.
  • Psalms 54:3 For strangers are risen up against me, and oppressors seek after my soul: they have not set God before them. Selah.
  • Isaiah 29:5 Moreover the multitude of thy strangers shall be like small dust, and the multitude of the terrible ones shall be as chaff that passeth away: yea, it shall be at an instant suddenly.