That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,

TITUS 2:4KJV
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What does Titus 2:4 mean?

Titus 2:4 says that older women should teach younger women to be clear-minded, to love their husbands, and to love their children. The verse highlights the importance of passing on practical wisdom and care within families and the community.

Paul is writing to Titus, a church leader on the island of Crete, giving him guidance on how different groups in the church should live. Here, Paul tells Titus that older women have a special role in helping younger women learn how to live well, especially in their relationships at home.

The Greek behind Titus 2:4

  • "Teach" (σωφρονίζω, sōphronizō): This Greek word means to encourage someone to be self-controlled or clear-minded. It is not just about giving information, but about helping someone develop good judgment and wise habits.
  • "Women" (νέος, neos): The word here refers specifically to younger women, highlighting that the advice is meant for those who are still learning and growing in their roles.
  • "Husbands" (ἀνήρ, anēr): This word means husbands or men, making it clear that the focus is on loving one’s spouse in a committed, everyday way.
  • "Children" (τέκνον, teknon): This word simply means children, emphasizing the family context and the importance of nurturing the next generation.

Why Titus 2:4 matters

  • Titus 2:4 shows that learning how to love and care for family is not automatic; it is something that can and should be taught by example and encouragement.
  • The verse emphasizes the value of relationships between generations, with older women playing a unique and respected role in guiding younger women.
  • This instruction fits into a larger passage where Paul describes how every group in the church has a part to play in building a healthy, caring community.

Where else these words appear

“women” Greek G3501 · used in 20 verses

  • Matthew 9:17 Neither do men put new wine into old bottles: else the bottles break, and the wine runneth out, and the bottles perish: but they put new wine into new bottles, and both are preserved.
  • Luke 15:13 And not many days after the younger son gathered all together, and took his journey into a far country, and there wasted his substance with riotous living.
  • 1 Timothy 5:1 Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him as a father; and the younger men as brethren;

“be” Greek G1511 · used in 124 verses

  • Matthew 16:13 When Jesus came into the coasts of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, saying, Whom do men say that I the Son of man am?
  • Acts 8:9 But there was a certain man, called Simon, which beforetime in the same city used sorcery, and bewitched the people of Samaria, giving out that himself was some great one:
  • 1 Corinthians 14:37 If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord.