And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the LORD his God.

1 SAMUEL 30:6KJV
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What does 1 Samuel 30:6 mean?

1 Samuel 30:6 describes David facing danger from his own men as well as deep personal distress. The men blame their leader amid grief for their children, while David finds strength in the LORD, the God he calls his own.

The threat follows the men’s discovery that their families had been taken from Ziklag. The words “every man for his sons and for his daughters” show how widely the loss was felt. The narrator contrasts the men’s talk of stoning David with David’s response to the crisis.

The Hebrew behind 1 Samuel 30:6

  • “grieved” — מָרַר (marar): This word can carry the sense of being bitter. Here, the men’s grief has a sharp edge, helping explain the anger directed at David.
  • “soul” — נֶפֶשׁ (nefesh): This word can refer to a person’s life or inner self. In the phrase “the soul of all the people was grieved,” it points to the depth of their distress.
  • “encouraged” — חָזַק (chazaq): This word can mean to strengthen or make firm. The KJV’s “encouraged himself” presents David as finding strength in the LORD amid the danger.

Why 1 Samuel 30:6 matters

  • The verse places David among the sufferers, not outside the loss. Earlier, the account names David’s own wives among those taken captive (verse 5).
  • David’s response is followed by a request for direction. In verses 7–8, he asks the priest Abiathar for the ephod, an object used when seeking an answer from the LORD, and asks whether he should pursue the raiders.

Where else these words appear

“distressed” Hebrew H3334 · used in 9 verses

  • Genesis 32:7 Then Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed: and he divided the people that was with him, and the flocks, and herds, and the camels, into two bands;
  • Judges 10:9 Moreover the children of Ammon passed over Jordan to fight also against Judah, and against Benjamin, and against the house of Ephraim; so that Israel was sore distressed.
  • Job 20:22 In the fulness of his sufficiency he shall be in straits: every hand of the wicked shall come upon him.

“grieved” Hebrew H4843 · used in 15 verses

  • Genesis 49:23 The archers have sorely grieved him, and shot at him, and hated him:
  • Ruth 1:20 And she said unto them, Call me not Naomi, call me Mara: for the Almighty hath dealt very bitterly with me.
  • Isaiah 38:17 Behold, for peace I had great bitterness: but thou hast in love to my soul delivered it from the pit of corruption: for thou hast cast all my sins behind thy back.

“stoning” Hebrew H5619 · used in 20 verses

  • Exodus 8:26 And Moses said, It is not meet so to do; for we shall sacrifice the abomination of the Egyptians to the LORD our God: lo, shall we sacrifice the abomination of the Egyptians before their eyes, and will they not stone us?
  • Deuteronomy 13:10 And thou shalt stone him with stones, that he die; because he hath sought to thrust thee away from the LORD thy God, which brought thee out of the land of Egypt, from the house of bondage.
  • 2 Samuel 16:13 And as David and his men went by the way, Shimei went along on the hill's side over against him, and cursed as he went, and threw stones at him, and cast dust.