Why saidst thou, She is my sister? so I might have taken her to me to wife: now therefore behold thy wife, take her, and go thy way.

GENESIS 12:19KJV
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What does Genesis 12:19 mean?

Genesis 12:19 records Pharaoh confronting Abram about why Abram said Sarai was his sister, which led Pharaoh to almost take her as his wife. Pharaoh tells Abram to take Sarai and leave, returning her to him.

In this verse, Pharaoh is speaking directly to Abram after discovering Sarai is actually Abram’s wife, not his sister. Pharaoh’s question highlights his frustration and the potential trouble Abram’s deception could have caused. The verse shows the seriousness of misrepresenting relationships and sets up Abram’s departure from Egypt with Sarai.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 12:19

  • "sister" (אָחוֹת, 'achot): This word means "sister," and its use here points to the specific claim Abram made about Sarai’s relationship to him, which was technically a half-truth but misleading in context.
  • "taken" (לָקַח, laqach): This verb means "to take," often in the sense of taking a wife. Pharaoh uses it to express that he might have married Sarai because of Abram’s claim.
  • "wife" (אִשָּׁה, ishah): This word appears twice in the verse, emphasizing Sarai’s true relationship to Abram and the seriousness of the near-mistake.
  • "take" (לָקַח, laqach): The repetition of this verb in Pharaoh’s command ("take her, and go thy way") underlines the urgency and finality of returning Sarai to Abram.

Why Genesis 12:19 matters

  • Genesis 12:19 clarifies that Pharaoh’s actions were based on misinformation, not malice, highlighting the consequences of Abram’s choice to mislead.
  • The verse emphasizes the importance of truthfulness, especially regarding family relationships, and how deception can endanger others.
  • This moment connects to the larger story of Abram’s journey, showing how God intervenes to protect Abram and Sarai despite their mistakes, and setting the stage for their return to Canaan.

Where else these words appear

“sister” Hebrew H269 · used in 104 verses

  • Genesis 4:22 And Zillah, she also bare Tubalcain, an instructer of every artificer in brass and iron: and the sister of Tubalcain was Naamah.
  • Leviticus 18:18 Neither shalt thou take a wife to her sister, to vex her, to uncover her nakedness, beside the other in her life time.
  • Job 1:4 And his sons went and feasted in their houses, every one his day; and sent and called for their three sisters to eat and to drink with them.