But God came to Abimelech in a dream by night, and said to him, Behold, thou art but a dead man, for the woman which thou hast taken; for she is a man's wife.

GENESIS 20:3KJV
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What does Genesis 20:3 mean?

Genesis 20:3 describes how God appeared to Abimelech in a dream at night and warned him that he was as good as dead because he had taken a woman who was already married to another man. This warning made it clear that Abimelech was in serious danger because of his actions regarding Sarah, Abraham’s wife.

In this scene, God is directly addressing Abimelech, the king of Gerar, who had taken Sarah into his household, not knowing she was married. The verse shows God’s intervention to protect Sarah and to prevent Abimelech from unknowingly committing a grave wrong. The dream serves as a turning point, making Abimelech aware of the seriousness of the situation and setting up the events that follow in the chapter.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 20:3

  • אֱלֹהִים (’Elohim): This is the Hebrew word for "God" used here, emphasizing God’s authority and power as the one who intervenes directly in human affairs.
  • חֲלוֹם (chalom): The word for "dream" highlights that God chose to communicate with Abimelech in a supernatural way, which was a recognized method of divine communication in the ancient world.
  • לַיְלָה (laylah): The word for "night" underlines the timing of the dream, suggesting both the secrecy and the seriousness of God’s warning.
  • מֵת (met): The word for "dead man" is strong language, showing just how serious the consequences would be if Abimelech did not respond to the warning.

Why Genesis 20:3 matters

  • This verse clarifies that Abimelech was unaware of Sarah’s marital status and that God intervened before any wrongdoing could occur, protecting both Sarah and Abimelech from sin.
  • The warning from God highlights the seriousness with which God views marriage and faithfulness, even among people outside Abraham’s immediate family.
  • Genesis 20:3 connects to the larger story by showing God’s active role in fulfilling His promises to Abraham and Sarah, ensuring that nothing would jeopardize the promised lineage.

Where else these words appear

“wife” Hebrew H1166 · used in 14 verses

  • Deuteronomy 21:13 And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife.
  • Proverbs 30:23 For an odious woman when she is married; and an handmaid that is heir to her mistress.
  • Isaiah 62:4 Thou shalt no more be termed Forsaken; neither shall thy land any more be termed Desolate: but thou shalt be called Hephzibah, and thy land Beulah: for the LORD delighteth in thee, and thy land shall be married.

“dream” Hebrew H2472 · used in 55 verses

  • Genesis 20:6 And God said unto him in a dream, Yea, I know that thou didst this in the integrity of thy heart; for I also withheld thee from sinning against me: therefore suffered I thee not to touch her.
  • Genesis 41:12 And there was there with us a young man, an Hebrew, servant to the captain of the guard; and we told him, and he interpreted to us our dreams; to each man according to his dream he did interpret.
  • Job 7:14 Then thou scarest me with dreams, and terrifiest me through visions:

“Abimelech” Hebrew H40 · used in 62 verses

  • Genesis 20:2 And Abraham said of Sarah his wife, She is my sister: and Abimelech king of Gerar sent, and took Sarah.
  • Genesis 26:16 And Abimelech said unto Isaac, Go from us; for thou art much mightier than we.
  • Judges 9:34 And Abimelech rose up, and all the people that were with him, by night, and they laid wait against Shechem in four companies.

“man's” Hebrew H1167 · used in 78 verses

  • Genesis 14:13 And there came one that had escaped, and told Abram the Hebrew; for he dwelt in the plain of Mamre the Amorite, brother of Eshcol, and brother of Aner: and these were confederate with Abram.
  • Judges 9:20 But if not, let fire come out from Abimelech, and devour the men of Shechem, and the house of Millo; and let fire come out from the men of Shechem, and from the house of Millo, and devour Abimelech.
  • Proverbs 16:22 Understanding is a wellspring of life unto him that hath it: but the instruction of fools is folly.