And the thing was very grievous in Abraham's sight because of his son.

GENESIS 21:11KJV
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Genesis 21:11 (KJV)

What does Genesis 21:11 mean?

Genesis 21:11 describes how Abraham was deeply troubled and distressed because of what was happening to his son. The verse shows Abraham’s emotional reaction to a difficult situation involving his family.

In this part of the story, God has told Abraham to listen to Sarah and send away Hagar and their son Ishmael. Abraham is not speaking here; instead, the verse describes his feelings as he faces the painful prospect of sending his son away. This moment highlights the real human cost and emotional weight of the decision Abraham is being asked to make.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 21:11

  • The word translated “grievous” is יָרַע (yara‘), which means to be displeasing or distressing. Here, it emphasizes just how deeply Abraham was hurt by the situation, not just mildly upset.
  • The word for “very” is מְאֹד (me’od), which intensifies the emotion, showing that Abraham’s distress was extremely strong.
  • The word for “thing” is דָּבָר (davar), which often means “matter” or “event.” This shows that it was not just a single word or command, but the whole situation that troubled Abraham.

Why Genesis 21:11 matters

  • This verse makes clear that Abraham’s faith did not make him immune to pain or hard choices; he felt real anguish over his son.
  • The emphasis on Abraham’s deep distress helps readers understand the seriousness of what God was asking him to do, adding weight to the story.
  • Seeing Abraham’s emotional struggle connects this verse to the wider theme of family, promise, and sacrifice that runs through Genesis.

Where else these words appear

“because” Hebrew H182 · used in 10 verses

  • Genesis 21:25 And Abraham reproved Abimelech because of a well of water, which Abimelech's servants had violently taken away.
  • Numbers 12:1 And Miriam and Aaron spake against Moses because of the Ethiopian woman whom he had married: for he had married an Ethiopian woman.
  • Judges 6:7 And it came to pass, when the children of Israel cried unto the LORD because of the Midianites,

“grievous” Hebrew H3415 · used in 22 verses

  • Genesis 21:12 And God said unto Abraham, Let it not be grievous in thy sight because of the lad, and because of thy bondwoman; in all that Sarah hath said unto thee, hearken unto her voice; for in Isaac shall thy seed be called.
  • 1 Samuel 8:6 But the thing displeased Samuel, when they said, Give us a king to judge us. And Samuel prayed unto the LORD.
  • Nehemiah 2:10 When Sanballat the Horonite, and Tobiah the servant, the Ammonite, heard of it, it grieved them exceedingly that there was come a man to seek the welfare of the children of Israel.