Then went Esau unto Ishmael, and took unto the wives which he had Mahalath the daughter of Ishmael Abraham's son, the sister of Nebajoth, to be his wife.

GENESIS 28:9KJV
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What does Genesis 28:9 mean?

Genesis 28:9 tells how Esau, seeing that his parents disapproved of his previous wives, went to Ishmael and married Mahalath, Ishmael’s daughter and Nebajoth’s sister, adding her to his wives. This verse shows Esau’s attempt to please his parents by marrying within Abraham’s extended family.

In the story, Esau is reacting to Isaac and Rebekah’s unhappiness with his earlier marriages to Canaanite women. By marrying Mahalath, a relative through Abraham’s other son Ishmael, Esau tries to align himself more closely with his family’s heritage. The verse lists Mahalath’s family connections to highlight her place in Abraham’s lineage.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 28:9

  • וַיֵּ֤לֶךְ (vayelekh, "went"): This verb shows Esau’s deliberate action; he made a purposeful journey to Ishmael’s family, not just a casual encounter.
  • לָקַ֣ח (laqach, "took"): The Hebrew word often means to take or receive, especially in the sense of taking a wife in marriage. It emphasizes Esau’s active choice in seeking out Mahalath.
  • מָחֲלַ֗ת (Mahalath): The name is specifically mentioned to identify Esau’s new wife and her family background, underlining the connection to Ishmael and Abraham.
  • אִשָּֽׁה (ishah, "wife"): This word is used twice in the verse, first for Esau’s existing wives and then for Mahalath, making clear that Mahalath was added to his existing marriages, not replacing anyone.

Why Genesis 28:9 matters

  • This verse clarifies that Esau was aware of his parents’ values and tried to respond, even if imperfectly, by marrying within Abraham’s broader family.
  • The mention of Mahalath’s lineage connects Esau’s story to the larger family narrative of Abraham, Isaac, and Ishmael, showing the complex relationships among their descendants.
  • Genesis 28:9 helps explain later tensions and divisions in the family by showing how Esau’s choices, even when well-intentioned, didn’t fully align with his parents’ expectations or God’s promises to Abraham’s line through Isaac.

Where else these words appear

“Mahalath” Hebrew H4258 · used in 2 verses

  • 2 Chronicles 11:18 And Rehoboam took him Mahalath the daughter of Jerimoth the son of David to wife, and Abihail the daughter of Eliab the son of Jesse;

“Nebajoth” Hebrew H5032 · used in 5 verses

  • Genesis 25:13 And these are the names of the sons of Ishmael, by their names, according to their generations: the firstborn of Ishmael, Nebajoth; and Kedar, and Adbeel, and Mibsam,
  • Genesis 36:3 And Bashemath Ishmael's daughter, sister of Nebajoth.
  • 1 Chronicles 1:29 These are their generations: The firstborn of Ishmael, Nebaioth; then Kedar, and Adbeel, and Mibsam,

“Ishmael” Hebrew H3458 · used in 44 verses

  • Genesis 16:11 And the angel of the LORD said unto her, Behold, thou art with child, and shalt bear a son, and shalt call his name Ishmael; because the LORD hath heard thy affliction.
  • 2 Kings 25:23 And when all the captains of the armies, they and their men, heard that the king of Babylon had made Gedaliah governor, there came to Gedaliah to Mizpah, even Ishmael the son of Nethaniah, and Johanan the son of Careah, and Seraiah the son of Tanhumeth the Netophathite, and Jaazaniah the son of a Maachathite, they and their men.
  • Jeremiah 41:1 Now it came to pass in the seventh month, that Ishmael the son of Nethaniah the son of Elishama, of the seed royal, and the princes of the king, even ten men with him, came unto Gedaliah the son of Ahikam to Mizpah; and there they did eat bread together in Mizpah.

“Esau” Hebrew H6215 · used in 82 verses

  • Genesis 25:25 And the first came out red, all over like an hairy garment; and they called his name Esau.
  • Genesis 28:6 When Esau saw that Isaac had blessed Jacob, and sent him away to Padanaram, to take him a wife from thence; and that as he blessed him he gave him a charge, saying, Thou shalt not take a wife of the daughters of Canaan;
  • Genesis 36:13 And these are the sons of Reuel; Nahath, and Zerah, Shammah, and Mizzah: these were the sons of Bashemath Esau's wife.