Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

HEBREWS 13:4KJV
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Hebrews 13:4 (KJV)

What does Hebrews 13:4 mean?

Hebrews 13:4 teaches that marriage should be respected by everyone and that sexual faithfulness within marriage is pure, while those who are sexually immoral or unfaithful will face God’s judgment. The verse draws a clear line between honoring marriage and the consequences of disregarding its boundaries.

The writer of Hebrews is giving practical instructions to a community of believers, urging them to value marriage and sexual purity. The verse addresses both the positive—honoring marriage and keeping the marriage bed “undefiled”—and the negative—warning that God will judge those who engage in sexual immorality or adultery. This guidance fits into a larger section focused on ethical living and relationships within the Christian community.

The Greek behind Hebrews 13:4

  • “Marriage” (γάμος, gamos): This word refers to the institution of marriage itself, not just the wedding event. The verse is emphasizing the ongoing respect due to marriage as a way of life.
  • “Honourable” (τίμιος, timios): This word means “precious” or “worthy of respect.” The verse is not just saying marriage is acceptable, but that it is to be highly valued.
  • “Bed” (κοίτη, koitē): This is a common Greek word for the marriage bed, used here as a symbol for sexual relations within marriage. The phrase “undefiled” (ἀμίαντος, amiantos) means pure or unstained, highlighting the idea of faithfulness.
  • “Whoremongers” (πόρνος, pornos) and “adulterers” (μοιχός, moichos): These words refer to those who engage in sexual immorality outside of marriage and those who are unfaithful to their spouse, respectively. The verse uses both to cover a broad range of sexual misconduct.

Why Hebrews 13:4 matters

  • Hebrews 13:4 clarifies that marriage is not just a private matter but something that should be honored by everyone in the community, countering any idea that it is unimportant or outdated.
  • The verse makes a strong distinction between sexual faithfulness within marriage and any sexual activity outside of it, showing that both are significant in God’s eyes.
  • By placing this teaching alongside other ethical instructions, Hebrews 13:4 connects personal relationships to the broader call to live in a way that reflects God’s values.

Where else these words appear

“bed” Greek G2845 · used in 4 verses

  • Luke 11:7 And he from within shall answer and say, Trouble me not: the door is now shut, and my children are with me in bed; I cannot rise and give thee.
  • Romans 9:10 And not only this; but when Rebecca also had conceived by one, even by our father Isaac;
  • Romans 13:13 Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying.

“undefiled” Greek G283 · used in 4 verses

  • Hebrews 7:26 For such an high priest became us, who is holy, harmless, undefiled, separate from sinners, and made higher than the heavens;
  • James 1:27 Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world.
  • 1 Peter 1:4 To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you,

“adulterers” Greek G3432 · used in 4 verses

  • Luke 18:11 The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican.
  • 1 Corinthians 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
  • James 4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.

“whoremongers” Greek G4205 · used in 10 verses

  • 1 Corinthians 5:9 I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators:
  • 1 Corinthians 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
  • Hebrews 12:16 Lest there be any fornicator, or profane person, as Esau, who for one morsel of meat sold his birthright.