Yet hear the word of the LORD, O ye women, and let your ear receive the word of his mouth, and teach your daughters wailing, and every one her neighbour lamentation.

JEREMIAH 9:20KJV
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What does Jeremiah 9:20 mean?

Jeremiah 9:20 calls on the women of Jerusalem to listen to God’s message and to teach their daughters and neighbors how to mourn and lament. The verse highlights the need for everyone, even the next generation, to understand and express grief because of the coming disaster.

In this verse, the prophet Jeremiah is speaking during a time of great trouble for Judah. God’s message is directed specifically to women, who were often the traditional mourners in ancient Israel. Jeremiah urges them not only to listen (“hear the word of the LORD”) but also to pass on the skills of wailing and lamentation, showing that the coming sorrow will be so widespread that everyone will need to know how to grieve.

The Hebrew behind Jeremiah 9:20

  • hear (שָׁמַע, shamaʿ): This word means more than just listening; it often carries the sense of paying attention and responding. Jeremiah is urging the women to truly take in God’s warning, not just hear it as background noise.
  • teach (לָמַד, lamad): The instruction to “teach” wailing shows that lamentation is not just a spontaneous reaction but something that can and must be learned and passed on. This underlines how severe the coming judgment will be.
  • wailing (נֵהִי, nehi) and lamentation (קִינָה, qinah): These are technical terms for public mourning rituals in ancient Israel. The use of both words suggests a deep, communal sorrow that will affect every household.

Why Jeremiah 9:20 matters

  • Jeremiah 9:20 shows that the disaster coming on Jerusalem is so great that even the skills of mourning must be taught to those who do not yet know them, emphasizing the scale of the tragedy.
  • The verse highlights the role of women in communal life, especially in times of crisis, as both recipients and transmitters of important traditions.
  • This verse connects to the wider passage by illustrating how the consequences of the people’s actions will touch every part of society, requiring everyone to prepare for grief.

Where else these words appear

“neighbour” Hebrew H7468 · used in 6 verses

  • Exodus 11:2 Speak now in the ears of the people, and let every man borrow of his neighbour, and every woman of her neighbour, jewels of silver, and jewels of gold.
  • Esther 1:19 If it please the king, let there go a royal commandment from him, and let it be written among the laws of the Persians and the Medes, that it be not altered, That Vashti come no more before king Ahasuerus; and let the king give her royal estate unto another that is better than she.
  • Isaiah 34:16 Seek ye out of the book of the LORD, and read: no one of these shall fail, none shall want her mate: for my mouth it hath commanded, and his spirit it hath gathered them.

“wailing” Hebrew H5092 · used in 7 verses

  • Jeremiah 9:10 For the mountains will I take up a weeping and wailing, and for the habitations of the wilderness a lamentation, because they are burned up, so that none can pass through them; neither can men hear the voice of the cattle; both the fowl of the heavens and the beast are fled; they are gone.
  • Jeremiah 9:19 For a voice of wailing is heard out of Zion, How are we spoiled! we are greatly confounded, because we have forsaken the land, because our dwellings have cast us out.
  • Amos 5:16 Therefore the LORD, the God of hosts, the Lord, saith thus; Wailing shall be in all streets; and they shall say in all the highways, Alas! alas! and they shall call the husbandman to mourning, and such as are skilful of lamentation to wailing.

“lamentation” Hebrew H7015 · used in 16 verses

  • 2 Samuel 1:17 And David lamented with this lamentation over Saul and over Jonathan his son:
  • Ezekiel 19:1 Moreover take thou up a lamentation for the princes of Israel,
  • Ezekiel 28:12 Son of man, take up a lamentation upon the king of Tyrus, and say unto him, Thus saith the Lord GOD; Thou sealest up the sum, full of wisdom, and perfect in beauty.

“teach” Hebrew H3925 · used in 80 verses

  • Deuteronomy 4:1 Now therefore hearken, O Israel, unto the statutes and unto the judgments, which I teach you, for to do them, that ye may live, and go in and possess the land which the LORD God of your fathers giveth you.
  • Psalms 25:4 Shew me thy ways, O LORD; teach me thy paths.
  • Proverbs 5:13 And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!