Though I speak, my grief is not asswaged: and though I forbear, what am I eased?

JOB 16:6KJV
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What does Job 16:6 mean?

Job 16:6 expresses Job’s deep pain and frustration: whether he tries to speak about his suffering or stays silent, nothing brings him relief or lessens his grief. Job is saying that neither talking nor holding back helps ease the burden he feels.

In this verse, Job is replying to his friends after their attempts to explain his suffering. Job feels trapped in his pain—he cannot find comfort no matter what he does. The verse shows how isolated and helpless Job feels, as he struggles to cope with his overwhelming sorrow.

The Hebrew behind Job 16:6

  • The word for “grief” is כְּאֵבִי (ke’evi), which often means deep pain or anguish, not just sadness. This highlights the intensity of Job’s suffering.
  • “Asswaged” comes from יֵחָת (yekhat, from חָתַת ḥatat), meaning to be lessened or soothed. Job is saying that nothing he does makes his pain subside.
  • “Forbear” is from חָדַל (ḥadal), meaning to hold back or refrain. Job is pointing out that even if he keeps quiet, it does not help.
  • “Eased” comes from הָלַךְ (halakh), which literally means “to go” or “to move.” Here, it suggests that his pain does not “go away” or leave him, no matter what he tries.

Why Job 16:6 matters

  • This verse clears up the idea that expressing pain or keeping it inside will always bring relief; Job finds neither approach helps him.
  • Job 16:6 emphasizes the depth of Job’s suffering and his sense of being stuck, which helps readers understand the emotional reality of his situation.
  • The verse connects to the wider passage by showing Job’s honest struggle with his friends’ advice and his own attempts to find comfort, setting the stage for his continued wrestling with God and his circumstances.

Where else these words appear

“grief” Hebrew H3511 · used in 6 verses

  • Job 2:13 So they sat down with him upon the ground seven days and seven nights, and none spake a word unto him: for they saw that his grief was very great.
  • Psalms 39:2 I was dumb with silence, I held my peace, even from good; and my sorrow was stirred.
  • Isaiah 65:14 Behold, my servants shall sing for joy of heart, but ye shall cry for sorrow of heart, and shall howl for vexation of spirit.

“asswaged” Hebrew H2820 · used in 28 verses

  • Genesis 20:6 And God said unto him in a dream, Yea, I know that thou didst this in the integrity of thy heart; for I also withheld thee from sinning against me: therefore suffered I thee not to touch her.
  • Job 16:5 But I would strengthen you with my mouth, and the moving of my lips should asswage your grief.
  • Proverbs 13:24 He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.

“forbear” Hebrew H2308 · used in 56 verses

  • Genesis 11:8 So the LORD scattered them abroad from thence upon the face of all the earth: and they left off to build the city.
  • Ruth 1:18 When she saw that she was stedfastly minded to go with her, then she left speaking unto her.
  • Job 19:14 My kinsfolk have failed, and my familiar friends have forgotten me.