My kinsfolk have failed, and my familiar friends have forgotten me.

JOB 19:14KJV
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What does Job 19:14 mean?

Job 19:14 describes how Job’s own relatives and close friends have abandoned and forgotten him in his suffering. The verse highlights Job’s deep sense of isolation, as even those who should have cared for him have turned away.

In this verse, Job is speaking about his personal experience of being deserted by those closest to him. Job is addressing his friends, who have come to “comfort” him but instead accuse him. He emphasizes that not only strangers, but even his kinsfolk and familiar friends, have failed him, deepening his pain and sense of betrayal.

The Hebrew behind Job 19:14

  • The word for “kinsfolk” is קָרֹב (qarov), which often means “those who are near” or “relatives.” This shows Job is not just talking about distant acquaintances but his own family.
  • The word translated “failed” is חָדַל (chadal), which means “to cease” or “to stop.” Job’s relatives have not just been absent; they have actively stopped supporting him.
  • The word for “friends” is יָדַע (yada‘), which literally means “to know.” Here, it refers to those who are intimately familiar with Job—his close companions.
  • The word “forgotten” is שָׁכַח (shakach), meaning “to forget” or “to ignore.” Job’s friends have not just drifted away; they have chosen to disregard him completely.

Why Job 19:14 matters

  • This verse clears up the misunderstanding that Job was only abandoned by strangers; it was his own family and closest friends who left him, which makes his suffering even more profound.
  • The verse emphasizes the depth of Job’s isolation, showing that his pain is not only physical and emotional but also social and relational.
  • Job 19:14 connects to the wider passage by highlighting the complete collapse of Job’s support system, setting the stage for his later appeals to God as his only hope.

Where else these words appear

“failed” Hebrew H2308 · used in 56 verses

  • Genesis 11:8 So the LORD scattered them abroad from thence upon the face of all the earth: and they left off to build the city.
  • Ruth 1:18 When she saw that she was stedfastly minded to go with her, then she left speaking unto her.
  • Job 16:6 Though I speak, my grief is not asswaged: and though I forbear, what am I eased?

“kinsfolk” Hebrew H7138 · used in 76 verses

  • Genesis 19:20 Behold now, this city is near to flee unto, and it is a little one: Oh, let me escape thither,( is it not a little one?) and my soul shall live.
  • 1 Kings 21:2 And Ahab spake unto Naboth, saying, Give me thy vineyard, that I may have it for a garden of herbs, because it is near unto my house: and I will give thee for it a better vineyard than it; or, if it seem good to thee, I will give thee the worth of it in money.
  • Isaiah 55:6 Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near:

“forgotten” Hebrew H7911 · used in 95 verses

  • Genesis 27:45 Until thy brother's anger turn away from thee, and he forget that which thou hast done to him: then I will send, and fetch thee from thence: why should I be deprived also of you both in one day?
  • Psalms 31:12 I am forgotten as a dead man out of mind: I am like a broken vessel.
  • Proverbs 31:7 Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more.