He hath put my brethren far from me, and mine acquaintance are verily estranged from me.

JOB 19:13KJV
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What does Job 19:13 mean?

Job 19:13 describes how Job feels that God has caused his closest family and friends to distance themselves from him, leaving him isolated and alone. Job says that even those who once knew him well now treat him like a stranger.

Job is speaking to his friends, explaining the depth of his suffering—not just physically, but also emotionally and socially. In this part of the book, Job is lamenting how his misfortunes have driven away everyone he once relied on for support, highlighting his sense of abandonment and the total collapse of his social world.

The Hebrew behind Job 19:13

  • The word "put" (רָחַק, rachaq) often means to make something distant or to drive away. Here, it emphasizes that Job feels God has actively caused others to withdraw from him, not just that they left on their own.
  • "Brethren" (אַח, ach) refers to close family, not just literal brothers but also kin. Job is stressing that even his most intimate relatives have turned away.
  • "Acquaintance" (יָדַע, yada‘) comes from a word meaning "to know." In this context, it means those who once knew Job well—his friends or close associates.
  • "Estranged" (זוּר, zur) means to become a stranger or to treat as foreign. Job feels that people who once knew him now act as if he is completely unknown to them.

Why Job 19:13 matters

  • This verse clarifies that Job’s suffering is not only physical but also deeply relational—he experiences abandonment from every level of his social circle, from family to friends.
  • The language highlights Job’s sense of being actively pushed away, not just passively forgotten, which intensifies the emotional weight of his complaint.
  • In the wider passage, Job’s isolation sets up his later longing for a redeemer and underscores the depth of his despair, making his faith and hope in God even more striking.

Where else these words appear

“put” Hebrew H7368 · used in 56 verses

  • Genesis 21:16 And she went, and sat her down over against him a good way off, as it were a bowshot: for she said, Let me not see the death of the child. And she sat over against him, and lift up her voice, and wept.
  • Psalms 22:19 But be not thou far from me, O LORD: O my strength, haste thee to help me.
  • Isaiah 6:12 And the LORD have removed men far away, and there be a great forsaking in the midst of the land.

“estranged” Hebrew H2114 · used in 76 verses

  • Exodus 29:33 And they shall eat those things wherewith the atonement was made, to consecrate and to sanctify them: but a stranger shall not eat thereof, because they are holy.
  • Psalms 58:3 The wicked are estranged from the womb: they go astray as soon as they be born, speaking lies.
  • Isaiah 29:5 Moreover the multitude of thy strangers shall be like small dust, and the multitude of the terrible ones shall be as chaff that passeth away: yea, it shall be at an instant suddenly.