He hath put my brethren far from me, and mine acquaintance are verily estranged from me.

JOB 19:13KJV
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What does Job 19:13 mean?

Job 19:13 describes how Job feels that God has caused his closest family and friends to distance themselves from him, leaving him isolated and alone. Job says that even those who once knew him well now treat him like a stranger.

Job is speaking to his friends, explaining the depth of his suffering—not just physically, but also emotionally and socially. In this part of the book, Job is lamenting how his misfortunes have driven away everyone he once relied on for support, highlighting his sense of abandonment and the total collapse of his social world.

The Hebrew behind Job 19:13

  • The word "put" (רָחַק, rachaq) often means to make something distant or to drive away. Here, it emphasizes that Job feels God has actively caused others to withdraw from him, not just that they left on their own.
  • "Brethren" (אַח, ach) refers to close family, not just literal brothers but also kin. Job is stressing that even his most intimate relatives have turned away.
  • "Acquaintance" (יָדַע, yada‘) comes from a word meaning "to know." In this context, it means those who once knew Job well—his friends or close associates.
  • "Estranged" (זוּר, zur) means to become a stranger or to treat as foreign. Job feels that people who once knew him now act as if he is completely unknown to them.

Why Job 19:13 matters

  • This verse clarifies that Job’s suffering is not only physical but also deeply relational—he experiences abandonment from every level of his social circle, from family to friends.
  • The language highlights Job’s sense of being actively pushed away, not just passively forgotten, which intensifies the emotional weight of his complaint.
  • In the wider passage, Job’s isolation sets up his later longing for a redeemer and underscores the depth of his despair, making his faith and hope in God even more striking.