Then Martha, as soon as she heard that Jesus was coming, went and met him: but Mary sat still in the house.

JOHN 11:20KJV
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What does John 11:20 mean?

John 11:20 describes how Martha, upon hearing that Jesus was approaching, immediately went out to meet him, while her sister Mary stayed seated in the house. This verse highlights the different responses of the two sisters when they learn that Jesus is near.

In the story, Jesus is coming to Bethany after Lazarus, the brother of Martha and Mary, has died. Martha’s action shows her eagerness or urgency to see Jesus, possibly to speak with him about her brother’s death, while Mary’s choice to remain seated may reflect her grief or a different way of processing the situation. The verse sets up the personal interactions that follow between Jesus and each sister.

The Greek behind John 11:20

  • προϋπάντησεν (proüpantēsen, "met"): This Greek word means to go out and meet someone, often with a sense of anticipation or urgency. It shows that Martha did not wait passively but actively went to meet Jesus, underlining her initiative.
  • ἐκάθητο (ekathēto, "sat"): This word means to sit or remain seated. The Greek here carries the sense of staying in place, which may suggest Mary’s stillness or her state of mourning.

Why John 11:20 matters

  • John 11:20 draws a clear contrast between Martha’s active approach and Mary’s more reserved response, helping readers see the different personalities and ways of dealing with grief.
  • The verse prepares the reader for the important conversations that Jesus will have with each sister, which are central to the unfolding story of Lazarus’s resurrection.
  • Understanding the sisters’ actions gives insight into the cultural and emotional context of the scene, showing how people in the first century might respond to loss and to the arrival of a respected teacher.

Where else these words appear

“met” Greek G5221 · used in 5 verses

  • Matthew 8:28 And when he was come to the other side into the country of the Gergesenes, there met him two possessed with devils, coming out of the tombs, exceeding fierce, so that no man might pass by that way.
  • Luke 8:27 And when he went forth to land, there met him out of the city a certain man, which had devils long time, and ware no clothes, neither abode in any house, but in the tombs.
  • John 11:30 Now Jesus was not yet come into the town, but was in that place where Martha met him.

“sat” Greek G2516 · used in 6 verses

  • Matthew 26:55 In that same hour said Jesus to the multitudes, Are ye come out as against a thief with swords and staves for to take me? I sat daily with you teaching in the temple, and ye laid no hold on me.
  • Luke 2:46 And it came to pass, that after three days they found him in the temple, sitting in the midst of the doctors, both hearing them, and asking them questions.
  • John 20:12 And seeth two angels in white sitting, the one at the head, and the other at the feet, where the body of Jesus had lain.

“Martha” Greek G3136 · used in 12 verses

  • Luke 10:38 Now it came to pass, as they went, that he entered into a certain village: and a certain woman named Martha received him into her house.
  • John 11:1 Now a certain man was sick, named Lazarus, of Bethany, the town of Mary and her sister Martha.
  • John 11:24 Martha saith unto him, I know that he shall rise again in the resurrection at the last day.

“Mary” Greek G3137 · used in 46 verses

  • Matthew 1:16 And Jacob begat Joseph the husband of Mary, of whom was born Jesus, who is called Christ.
  • Luke 1:34 Then said Mary unto the angel, How shall this be, seeing I know not a man?
  • John 11:2 (It was that Mary which anointed the Lord with ointment, and wiped his feet with her hair, whose brother Lazarus was sick.)