And this is the thing that ye shall do, Ye shall utterly destroy every male, and every woman that hath lain by man.

JUDGES 21:11KJV
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What does Judges 21:11 mean?

Judges 21:11 commands the Israelites to kill every male and every woman who has slept with a man in Jabesh-gilead, sparing only the young women who are virgins. This instruction is part of a specific order given during a violent episode at the end of the book of Judges.

The leaders of Israel are speaking to their warriors after discovering that no one from Jabesh-gilead joined them in a previous assembly. In response, they order a complete destruction—except for the unmarried young women—so that these survivors can be given as wives to the tribe of Benjamin, which had been nearly wiped out. The verse reflects the harsh and chaotic period described in Judges, where the Israelites often acted out of desperation and without central leadership.

The Hebrew behind Judges 21:11

  • "Destroy" (הַחֲרֵם, hacharem) means to put under a ban or devote to destruction, often used for total destruction in warfare. This word signals that the action was meant to be complete and without exception, except as specified.
  • "Male" (זָכָר, zakar) and "woman" (אִשָּׁה, ishah) are both specific, making clear that all adult men and sexually active women were to be killed, not just combatants.
  • "Lain" (מִשְׁכַּב, mishkav) comes from a word meaning to lie with sexually, clarifying that only women who had not had sexual relations (virgins) were to be spared.

Why Judges 21:11 matters

  • This verse shows the extreme measures the Israelites took to solve the crisis of the tribe of Benjamin’s near extinction, highlighting the moral and social confusion of the time.
  • The specific mention of sparing only virgins explains how the Israelites intended to provide wives for the surviving Benjaminites, connecting to the larger narrative of Judges 21.
  • The harshness of the command can be troubling, but it helps readers understand the desperate and lawless context in which these decisions were made, emphasizing the repeated theme in Judges that “everyone did what was right in his own eyes.”

Where else these words appear

“lain” Hebrew H4904 · used in 44 verses

  • Genesis 49:4 Unstable as water, thou shalt not excel; because thou wentest up to thy father's bed; then defiledst thou it: he went up to my couch.
  • Judges 21:12 And they found among the inhabitants of Jabeshgilead four hundred young virgins, that had known no man by lying with any male: and they brought them unto the camp to Shiloh, which is in the land of Canaan.
  • Psalms 4:4 Stand in awe, and sin not: commune with your own heart upon your bed, and be still. Selah.

“destroy” Hebrew H2763 · used in 48 verses

  • Exodus 22:20 He that sacrificeth unto any god, save unto the LORD only, he shall be utterly destroyed.
  • Joshua 10:1 Now it came to pass, when Adonizedek king of Jerusalem had heard how Joshua had taken Ai, and had utterly destroyed it; as he had done to Jericho and her king, so he had done to Ai and her king; and how the inhabitants of Gibeon had made peace with Israel, and were among them;
  • 1 Samuel 15:20 And Saul said unto Samuel, Yea, I have obeyed the voice of the LORD, and have gone the way which the LORD sent me, and have brought Agag the king of Amalek, and have utterly destroyed the Amalekites.

“male” Hebrew H2145 · used in 80 verses

  • Genesis 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
  • Leviticus 12:2 Speak unto the children of Israel, saying, If a woman have conceived seed, and born a man child: then she shall be unclean seven days; according to the days of the separation for her infirmity shall she be unclean.
  • Numbers 31:35 And thirty and two thousand persons in all, of women that had not known man by lying with him.