My son, be wise, and make my heart glad, that I may answer him that reproacheth me.

PROVERBS 27:11KJV
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What does Proverbs 27:11 mean?

Proverbs 27:11 is a father’s appeal to his child, urging him to act wisely so that the father can take pride in him and have a good answer for those who criticize or insult him. The verse highlights how a child’s choices reflect on the parent and can either bring joy or shame.

In this proverb, the speaker is likely Solomon, addressing his “son” either literally or as a general term for a student or young person. The father’s happiness (“make my heart glad”) is tied to the son’s wisdom, showing the close link between family reputation and personal behavior in ancient Israel. The verse also hints at a social setting where parents might be judged by their children’s actions, and wise living gives the parent confidence to respond to anyone who mocks or reproaches them.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 27:11

  • “son” (בֵּן, ben): This word often means a literal son, but in Proverbs it can also mean a student or someone under the speaker’s guidance, broadening the audience beyond just family.
  • “wise” (חָכַם, chakam): This word goes beyond just knowledge; it means skillful, practical living that shows good judgment. The father is asking for real-life wisdom, not just book learning.
  • “heart” (לֵב, lev): In Hebrew thought, the “heart” is the center of thought and emotion, not just feelings. When the father asks for his heart to be made glad, he is talking about deep, personal satisfaction.
  • “glad” (שָׂמַח, samach): This word means a genuine, joyful gladness, not just a passing happiness. The father’s joy is deeply connected to the son’s wise choices.
  • “answer” (שׁוּב, shuv + דָּבָר, davar): The phrase here means to “return a word” or “give a reply.” The father wants to be able to respond well to anyone who criticizes him because of his child.
  • “reproacheth” (חָרַף, charaf): This word means to taunt, insult, or shame. The verse recognizes that people might judge a parent by the child’s actions, and wise living protects against such shame.

Why Proverbs 27:11 matters

  • The verse clarifies that wisdom is not just personal; it affects family and community reputation, showing how interconnected people’s lives were in ancient Israel.
  • Proverbs 27:11 highlights the emotional investment parents have in their children’s choices, revealing the deep joy or pain those choices can bring.
  • The proverb fits into a larger biblical theme of generational influence, where the actions of one family member can impact the honor or shame of the whole household.

Where else these words appear

“wise” Hebrew H2449 · used in 26 verses

  • Exodus 1:10 Come on, let us deal wisely with them; lest they multiply, and it come to pass, that, when there falleth out any war, they join also unto our enemies, and fight against us, and so get them up out of the land.
  • Psalms 119:98 Thou through thy commandments hast made me wiser than mine enemies: for they are ever with me.
  • Proverbs 21:11 When the scorner is punished, the simple is made wise: and when the wise is instructed, he receiveth knowledge.

“reproacheth” Hebrew H2778 · used in 40 verses

  • Leviticus 19:20 And whosoever lieth carnally with a woman, that is a bondmaid, betrothed to an husband, and not at all redeemed, nor freedom given her; she shall be scourged; they shall not be put to death, because she was not free.
  • 2 Kings 19:23 By thy messengers thou hast reproached the Lord, and hast said, With the multitude of my chariots I am come up to the height of the mountains, to the sides of Lebanon, and will cut down the tall cedar trees thereof, and the choice fir trees thereof: and I will enter into the lodgings of his borders, and into the forest of his Carmel.
  • Psalms 89:51 Wherewith thine enemies have reproached, O LORD; wherewith they have reproached the footsteps of thine anointed.

“glad” Hebrew H8055 · used in 145 verses

  • Exodus 4:14 And the anger of the LORD was kindled against Moses, and he said, Is not Aaron the Levite thy brother? I know that he can speak well. And also, behold, he cometh forth to meet thee: and when he seeth thee, he will be glad in his heart.
  • Psalms 33:21 For our heart shall rejoice in him, because we have trusted in his holy name.
  • Proverbs 15:30 The light of the eyes rejoiceth the heart: and a good report maketh the bones fat.