My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments:

PROVERBS 3:1KJV
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What does Proverbs 3:1 mean?

Proverbs 3:1 urges the reader, addressed as "my son," not to forget the teachings or instructions given, but instead to hold onto them deeply and obey them from the heart. The verse highlights the importance of remembering and valuing wise instruction, not just outwardly but with genuine commitment.

The speaker is traditionally understood to be a wise parent or teacher, likely Solomon, speaking to a younger person or student. The verse sets a tone of caring guidance, emphasizing that wisdom and commands are not just rules to follow, but treasures to be kept and lived out sincerely. This introduction frames the rest of the chapter as heartfelt advice meant for the good of the listener.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 3:1

  • "son" (בֵּן, ben): This word often means a literal son, but in Proverbs it can also mean a student or someone being mentored, showing a close, caring relationship.
  • "forget" (שָׁכַח, shakach): This word means more than just not remembering; it suggests neglect or letting something slip away, warning against carelessness with wisdom.
  • "law" (תּוֹרָה, torah): While often translated "law," torah here refers to teaching or instruction, not just legal rules, highlighting that the advice is meant to guide life as a whole.
  • "heart" (לֵב, lev): In Hebrew thought, the heart is the center of thought, will, and emotion, so keeping the commandments "in your heart" means a deep, sincere commitment.
  • "keep" (נָצַר, natsar): This word means to guard or watch over carefully, suggesting that the commandments are valuable and need to be protected and cherished.
  • "commandments" (מִצְוָה, mitsvah): This refers to specific instructions or directions, not just general advice, showing that the guidance is meant to be followed in daily life.

Why Proverbs 3:1 matters

  • Proverbs 3:1 clarifies that wisdom is not just about knowing rules but about treasuring and living out good instruction with genuine care.
  • The verse connects the ideas of memory and obedience, showing that forgetting wise teaching is as much a danger as outright disobedience.
  • By addressing the reader as "my son," Proverbs 3:1 frames the following advice as coming from a place of love and personal concern, not just authority.

Where else these words appear

“keep” Hebrew H5341 · used in 62 verses

  • Exodus 34:7 Keeping mercy for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin, and that will by no means clear the guilty; visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children, and upon the children's children, unto the third and to the fourth generation.
  • Psalms 119:33 HE. Teach me, O LORD, the way of thy statutes; and I shall keep it unto the end.
  • Proverbs 13:3 He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.

“forget” Hebrew H7911 · used in 95 verses

  • Genesis 27:45 Until thy brother's anger turn away from thee, and he forget that which thou hast done to him: then I will send, and fetch thee from thence: why should I be deprived also of you both in one day?
  • Psalms 13:1 To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David. How long wilt thou forget me, O LORD? for ever? how long wilt thou hide thy face from me?
  • Proverbs 31:7 Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more.