Then said Elkanah her husband to her, Hannah, why weepest thou? and why eatest thou not? and why is thy heart grieved? am not I better to thee than ten sons?

1 SAMUEL 1:8KJV
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What does 1 Samuel 1:8 mean?

1 Samuel 1:8 shows Elkanah, Hannah’s husband, trying to comfort her when she is deeply upset and not eating. He asks why she is so sad and reminds her that his love should mean more to her than having many sons.

Elkanah is speaking directly to Hannah at a time when she is grieving because she cannot have children. In their culture, having sons was highly valued, so Hannah’s sadness is deep. Elkanah’s question, “am not I better to thee than ten sons?” shows his attempt to reassure her, but it also reveals that he does not fully understand the depth of her pain.

The Hebrew behind 1 Samuel 1:8

  • “Grieved” is from יָרַע (yara‘), here in the form תֵּרַע (terā‘), which means to be troubled or distressed. This word shows that Hannah’s pain is not just sadness but a deep, inner hurt.
  • “Better” is from טוֹב (tov), meaning good or valuable. Elkanah is asking if his love and presence are not more valuable than “ten sons,” which is a way of saying “many sons” in Hebrew culture.
  • “Ten” is עֶשֶׂר (‘eser), often used in Hebrew as a round number to mean “many” or “a full set,” not just the literal number ten.

Why 1 Samuel 1:8 matters

  • This verse helps readers see the emotional gap between Elkanah and Hannah—he wants to help, but he cannot fully grasp her longing for a child.
  • The verse highlights how important children, especially sons, were in ancient Israel, and why Hannah’s pain was so intense.
  • Understanding Elkanah’s words sets up the story that follows, where Hannah turns to God with her grief, showing the depth of her faith and desperation.

Where else these words appear

“Hannah” Hebrew H2584 · used in 11 verses

  • 1 Samuel 1:2 And he had two wives; the name of the one was Hannah, and the name of the other Peninnah: and Peninnah had children, but Hannah had no children.
  • 1 Samuel 1:13 Now Hannah, she spake in her heart; only her lips moved, but her voice was not heard: therefore Eli thought she had been drunken.
  • 1 Samuel 1:20 Wherefore it came to pass, when the time was come about after Hannah had conceived, that she bare a son, and called his name Samuel, saying, Because I have asked him of the LORD.

“Elkanah” Hebrew H511 · used in 20 verses

  • Exodus 6:24 And the sons of Korah; Assir, and Elkanah, and Abiasaph: these are the families of the Korhites.
  • 1 Samuel 2:11 And Elkanah went to Ramah to his house. And the child did minister unto the LORD before Eli the priest.
  • 1 Chronicles 6:34 The son of Elkanah, the son of Jeroham, the son of Eliel, the son of Toah,

“grieved” Hebrew H3415 · used in 22 verses

  • Genesis 21:11 And the thing was very grievous in Abraham's sight because of his son.
  • 1 Samuel 8:6 But the thing displeased Samuel, when they said, Give us a king to judge us. And Samuel prayed unto the LORD.
  • Nehemiah 2:10 When Sanballat the Horonite, and Tobiah the servant, the Ammonite, heard of it, it grieved them exceedingly that there was come a man to seek the welfare of the children of Israel.

“weepest” Hebrew H1058 · used in 100 verses

  • Genesis 21:16 And she went, and sat her down over against him a good way off, as it were a bowshot: for she said, Let me not see the death of the child. And she sat over against him, and lift up her voice, and wept.
  • Judges 20:26 Then all the children of Israel, and all the people, went up, and came unto the house of God, and wept, and sat there before the LORD, and fasted that day until even, and offered burnt offerings and peace offerings before the LORD.
  • Esther 8:3 And Esther spake yet again before the king, and fell down at his feet, and besought him with tears to put away the mischief of Haman the Agagite, and his device that he had devised against the Jews.