Then said Elkanah her husband to her, Hannah, why weepest thou? and why eatest thou not? and why is thy heart grieved? am not I better to thee than ten sons?

1 SAMUEL 1:8KJV
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What does 1 Samuel 1:8 mean?

1 Samuel 1:8 shows Elkanah, Hannah’s husband, trying to comfort her when she is deeply upset and not eating. He asks why she is so sad and reminds her that his love should mean more to her than having many sons.

Elkanah is speaking directly to Hannah at a time when she is grieving because she cannot have children. In their culture, having sons was highly valued, so Hannah’s sadness is deep. Elkanah’s question, “am not I better to thee than ten sons?” shows his attempt to reassure her, but it also reveals that he does not fully understand the depth of her pain.

The Hebrew behind 1 Samuel 1:8

  • “Grieved” is from יָרַע (yara‘), here in the form תֵּרַע (terā‘), which means to be troubled or distressed. This word shows that Hannah’s pain is not just sadness but a deep, inner hurt.
  • “Better” is from טוֹב (tov), meaning good or valuable. Elkanah is asking if his love and presence are not more valuable than “ten sons,” which is a way of saying “many sons” in Hebrew culture.
  • “Ten” is עֶשֶׂר (‘eser), often used in Hebrew as a round number to mean “many” or “a full set,” not just the literal number ten.

Why 1 Samuel 1:8 matters

  • This verse helps readers see the emotional gap between Elkanah and Hannah—he wants to help, but he cannot fully grasp her longing for a child.
  • The verse highlights how important children, especially sons, were in ancient Israel, and why Hannah’s pain was so intense.
  • Understanding Elkanah’s words sets up the story that follows, where Hannah turns to God with her grief, showing the depth of her faith and desperation.