A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

ECCLESIASTES 3:5KJV
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What does Ecclesiastes 3:5 mean?

Ecclesiastes 3:5 says that there are appropriate times in life for different actions, such as casting away stones or gathering them, and embracing or refraining from embracing. The verse highlights the changing seasons and rhythms of life, suggesting that wisdom involves recognizing the right time for each action.

The book of Ecclesiastes is traditionally attributed to Solomon, who is reflecting on the human experience and the cycles of life. In this verse, he uses everyday activities—handling stones and embracing others—as examples to show that life is full of opposites and timing matters. The verse is part of a larger passage listing pairs of contrasting actions, all meant to show that everything has its suitable moment.

The Hebrew behind Ecclesiastes 3:5

  • "time" (עֵת, ‘et): This word appears repeatedly and means a specific, appointed moment or season. Its use here emphasizes that each action has a proper, fitting time, not just a random occurrence.
  • "cast away" (שָׁלַךְ, shalak): This verb means to throw or scatter. In the context of "casting away stones," it can refer to clearing a field or removing obstacles, which was a common agricultural task.
  • "gather" (כָּנַס, kanas): This word means to collect or bring together. "Gathering stones" could mean preparing a field for planting or building something, showing a constructive purpose.
  • "embrace" (חָבַק, chavaq) and "refrain" (רָחַק, rachaq): "Embrace" means to hold or hug, while "refrain" means to keep distant. These words highlight relational closeness and distance, suggesting that relationships also have their proper timing.

Why Ecclesiastes 3:5 matters

  • Ecclesiastes 3:5 helps clear up the idea that every action is always right or always wrong; instead, it teaches that wisdom is knowing when each action is appropriate.
  • The verse connects to the wider passage by reinforcing the theme that life is made up of contrasting experiences, all under God's timing and control.
  • By using practical examples like stones and embracing, the verse grounds its message in real-life situations, making the abstract idea of "timing" more relatable and understandable.

Where else these words appear

“gather” Hebrew H3664 · used in 11 verses

  • 1 Chronicles 22:2 And David commanded to gather together the strangers that were in the land of Israel; and he set masons to hew wrought stones to build the house of God.
  • Psalms 33:7 He gathereth the waters of the sea together as an heap: he layeth up the depth in storehouses.
  • Ecclesiastes 2:26 For God giveth to a man that is good in his sight wisdom, and knowledge, and joy: but to the sinner he giveth travail, to gather and to heap up, that he may give to him that is good before God. This also is vanity and vexation of spirit.

“embrace” Hebrew H2263 · used in 12 verses

  • Genesis 29:13 And it came to pass, when Laban heard the tidings of Jacob his sister's son, that he ran to meet him, and embraced him, and kissed him, and brought him to his house. And he told Laban all these things.
  • 2 Kings 4:16 And he said, About this season, according to the time of life, thou shalt embrace a son. And she said, Nay, my lord, thou man of God, do not lie unto thine handmaid.
  • Ecclesiastes 4:5 The fool foldeth his hands together, and eateth his own flesh.

“refrain” Hebrew H7368 · used in 56 verses

  • Genesis 21:16 And she went, and sat her down over against him a good way off, as it were a bowshot: for she said, Let me not see the death of the child. And she sat over against him, and lift up her voice, and wept.
  • Psalms 22:11 Be not far from me; for trouble is near; for there is none to help.
  • Isaiah 6:12 And the LORD have removed men far away, and there be a great forsaking in the midst of the land.

“away” Hebrew H7993 · used in 121 verses

  • Genesis 21:15 And the water was spent in the bottle, and she cast the child under one of the shrubs.
  • 2 Kings 2:16 And they said unto him, Behold now, there be with thy servants fifty strong men; let them go, we pray thee, and seek thy master: lest peradventure the Spirit of the LORD hath taken him up, and cast him upon some mountain, or into some valley. And he said, Ye shall not send.
  • Isaiah 19:8 The fishers also shall mourn, and all they that cast angle into the brooks shall lament, and they that spread nets upon the waters shall languish.