A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

ECCLESIASTES 3:7KJV
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What does Ecclesiastes 3:7 mean?

Ecclesiastes 3:7 says there are appropriate times in life for both breaking apart and mending, for staying silent and for speaking up. The verse points out that different situations call for different responses, and wisdom is knowing which is needed when.

The book of Ecclesiastes is traditionally attributed to Solomon, reflecting on the changing seasons and rhythms of human life. In this verse, the writer uses common actions—tearing and sewing, silence and speech—to show that life is full of contrasts, and each has its proper moment. The verse is part of a larger passage listing various “times” for different activities, highlighting the unpredictability and variety of human experience.

The Hebrew behind Ecclesiastes 3:7

  • The word for "time" is עֵת (ʿet, H6256), used repeatedly in this passage to emphasize that every activity has its own proper moment. This word suggests not just any time, but a fitting or appointed season.
  • "Rend" comes from קָרַע (qāraʿ, H7167), which means to tear or rip apart, often used for tearing garments in grief or distress. This adds a sense of emotional or significant action, not just physical.
  • "Sew" is from תָּפַר (tāfar, H8609), meaning to stitch or mend, which balances the tearing with the idea of repair or restoration.
  • "Keep silence" uses חָשָׁה (ḥāšāh, H2814), meaning to be quiet or still, often implying thoughtful restraint.
  • "Speak" is דָּבַר (dābar, H1696), meaning to talk or declare, which can include both everyday conversation and more formal or important speech.

Why Ecclesiastes 3:7 matters

  • The verse helps clear up the idea that there is always a single right way to act; instead, it stresses that wisdom involves discerning the right response for each situation.
  • By pairing actions like tearing and sewing, or silence and speech, Ecclesiastes 3:7 highlights the balance and cycles present in life, encouraging readers to accept both the hard and the healing moments.
  • This verse fits into the broader theme of Ecclesiastes 3, which explores how life is made up of many different seasons, none of which last forever, reminding readers to be mindful and adaptable.

Where else these words appear

“sew” Hebrew H8609 · used in 4 verses

  • Genesis 3:7 And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons.
  • Job 16:15 I have sewed sackcloth upon my skin, and defiled my horn in the dust.
  • Ezekiel 13:18 And say, Thus saith the Lord GOD; Woe to the women that sew pillows to all armholes, and make kerchiefs upon the head of every stature to hunt souls! Will ye hunt the souls of my people, and will ye save the souls alive that come unto you?

“silence” Hebrew H2814 · used in 16 verses

  • Judges 18:9 And they said, Arise, that we may go up against them: for we have seen the land, and, behold, it is very good: and are ye still? be not slothful to go, and to enter to possess the land.
  • Nehemiah 8:11 So the Levites stilled all the people, saying, Hold your peace, for the day is holy; neither be ye grieved.
  • Isaiah 57:11 And of whom hast thou been afraid or feared, that thou hast lied, and hast not remembered me, nor laid it to thy heart? have not I held my peace even of old, and thou fearest me not?

“rend” Hebrew H7167 · used in 60 verses

  • Genesis 37:29 And Reuben returned unto the pit; and, behold, Joseph was not in the pit; and he rent his clothes.
  • 1 Kings 11:11 Wherefore the LORD said unto Solomon, Forasmuch as this is done of thee, and thou hast not kept my covenant and my statutes, which I have commanded thee, I will surely rend the kingdom from thee, and will give it to thy servant.
  • 2 Chronicles 34:19 And it came to pass, when the king had heard the words of the law, that he rent his clothes.