Surely after that I was turned, I repented; and after that I was instructed, I smote upon my thigh: I was ashamed, yea, even confounded, because I did bear the reproach of my youth.

JEREMIAH 31:19KJV
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What does Jeremiah 31:19 mean?

Jeremiah 31:19 describes a moment of deep regret and change, where someone looks back on their past mistakes with shame and sorrow after being corrected and turning back. The verse shows a personal confession of feeling embarrassed and troubled by youthful wrongdoing, now recognized after receiving instruction.

In this verse, the speaker is often understood as the people of Israel, expressing their feelings after being brought back from wandering away from God. The verse uses vivid actions—like striking the thigh—to show real emotional pain and repentance. This is part of a larger passage where God promises to restore and forgive Israel, and here, Israel’s honest response is highlighted.

The Hebrew behind Jeremiah 31:19

  • "Turned" (שׁוּב, shuv): This word means to return or turn back, and it often carries the sense of repentance or coming back to the right path. It shows that the change is not just emotional but a real turning around.
  • "Repented" (נָחַם, nacham): This word can mean to feel regret or sorrow, and here it points to a deep, heartfelt change after realizing past errors.
  • "Instructed" (יָדַע, yada): This means to know or be taught. The verse connects learning or being corrected with the process of true repentance.
  • "Smote upon my thigh" (סָפַק עַל־יָרֵךְ, safaq al-yarekh): This is a physical gesture of grief or shock in ancient times, showing that the regret is not just in words but felt deeply.

Why Jeremiah 31:19 matters

  • Jeremiah 31:19 clears up that true repentance involves both a change of direction and a real sense of regret, not just outward actions.
  • The verse emphasizes that shame and confusion over past mistakes can be a natural and honest part of returning to what is right, especially after being corrected.
  • This verse connects to the wider chapter’s theme of restoration, showing that God’s promise to bring people back includes their honest, sometimes painful, self-reflection and growth.

Where else these words appear

“smote” Hebrew H5606 · used in 10 verses

  • Numbers 24:10 And Balak's anger was kindled against Balaam, and he smote his hands together: and Balak said unto Balaam, I called thee to curse mine enemies, and, behold, thou hast altogether blessed them these three times.
  • Job 34:26 He striketh them as wicked men in the open sight of others;
  • Jeremiah 48:26 Make ye him drunken: for he magnified himself against the LORD: Moab also shall wallow in his vomit, and he also shall be in derision.

“thigh” Hebrew H3409 · used in 32 verses

  • Genesis 24:2 And Abraham said unto his eldest servant of his house, that ruled over all that he had, Put, I pray thee, thy hand under my thigh:
  • Exodus 32:27 And he said unto them, Thus saith the LORD God of Israel, Put every man his sword by his side, and go in and out from gate to gate throughout the camp, and slay every man his brother, and every man his companion, and every man his neighbour.
  • Numbers 8:4 And this work of the candlestick was of beaten gold, unto the shaft thereof, unto the flowers thereof, was beaten work: according unto the pattern which the LORD had shewed Moses, so he made the candlestick.

“confounded” Hebrew H3637 · used in 38 verses

  • Numbers 12:14 And the LORD said unto Moses, If her father had but spit in her face, should she not be ashamed seven days? let her be shut out from the camp seven days, and after that let her be received in again.
  • Job 19:3 These ten times have ye reproached me: ye are not ashamed that ye make yourselves strange to me.
  • Isaiah 50:7 For the Lord GOD will help me; therefore shall I not be confounded: therefore have I set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be ashamed.

“youth” Hebrew H5271 · used in 46 verses

  • Genesis 8:21 And the LORD smelled a sweet savour; and the LORD said in his heart, I will not again curse the ground any more for man's sake; for the imagination of man's heart is evil from his youth; neither will I again smite any more every thing living, as I have done.
  • Psalms 127:4 As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.
  • Jeremiah 48:11 Moab hath been at ease from his youth, and he hath settled on his lees, and hath not been emptied from vessel to vessel, neither hath he gone into captivity: therefore his taste remained in him, and his scent is not changed.