Withdraw thy foot from thy neighbour's house; lest he be weary of thee, and so hate thee.

PROVERBS 25:17KJV
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What does Proverbs 25:17 mean?

Proverbs 25:17 advises against visiting a neighbour so often that the welcome wears thin. The saying pictures a relationship changing for the worse when one person’s repeated presence becomes more than the other person wants to bear.

“Withdraw thy foot” pictures holding back from stepping into the neighbour’s home. After the image of having too much honey in verse 16, the proverb turns to another kind of excess: even a welcome visitor can become unwelcome through too many visits.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 25:17

  • “Withdraw” — יָקַר (yaqar): Here the word carries the sense of making something scarce or infrequent. It suggests limiting visits, rather than simply leaving after a single visit.
  • “weary” — שָׂבַע (savaʿ): The word can mean being full or having had enough. Here it describes a neighbour who has had more of someone’s company than they want.

Why Proverbs 25:17 matters

  • The warning describes a change in the neighbour’s feelings, not just an inconvenience. The saying moves from being “weary of thee” to “hate thee,” showing how repeated visits can strain a relationship.
  • The advice is addressed to the visitor, though the neighbour’s reaction is the focus. “Thy foot” and “thy neighbour’s house” place the two people on opposite sides of the doorway.

Where else these words appear

“Withdraw” Hebrew H3365 · used in 11 verses

  • 1 Samuel 18:30 Then the princes of the Philistines went forth: and it came to pass, after they went forth, that David behaved himself more wisely than all the servants of Saul; so that his name was much set by.
  • 2 Kings 1:14 Behold, there came fire down from heaven, and burnt up the two captains of the former fifties with their fifties: therefore let my life now be precious in thy sight.
  • Psalms 139:17 How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them!

“weary” Hebrew H7646 · used in 92 verses

  • Exodus 16:8 And Moses said, This shall be, when the LORD shall give you in the evening flesh to eat, and in the morning bread to the full; for that the LORD heareth your murmurings which ye murmur against him: and what are we? your murmurings are not against us, but against the LORD.
  • Psalms 88:3 For my soul is full of troubles: and my life draweth nigh unto the grave.
  • Ecclesiastes 5:10 He that loveth silver shall not be satisfied with silver; nor he that loveth abundance with increase: this is also vanity.

“hate” Hebrew H8130 · used in 139 verses

  • Genesis 24:60 And they blessed Rebekah, and said unto her, Thou art our sister, be thou the mother of thousands of millions, and let thy seed possess the gate of those which hate them.
  • Esther 9:1 Now in the twelfth month, that is, the month Adar, on the thirteenth day of the same, when the king's commandment and his decree drew near to be put in execution, in the day that the enemies of the Jews hoped to have power over them,(though it was turned to the contrary, that the Jews had rule over them that hated them;)
  • Proverbs 1:22 How long, ye simple ones, will ye love simplicity? and the scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate knowledge?