A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth worketh ruin.

PROVERBS 26:28KJV
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What does Proverbs 26:28 mean?

Proverbs 26:28 warns that someone who lies or uses flattery causes real harm to others. The verse says a lying tongue shows hatred toward its victims, and a flattering mouth leads to destruction.

In this proverb, the writer (traditionally Solomon) is giving practical wisdom about the dangers of deceitful speech. The verse is aimed at anyone listening or reading, highlighting that both lies and empty praise are not just harmless words—they damage relationships and lives. The proverb draws a sharp line between honest speech and words that, though they may sound pleasant or harmless, actually bring pain and ruin.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 26:28

  • "Lying" (שֶׁקֶר, sheqer): This word means falsehood or deception. The verse points out that lying is not just a minor fault but an act that shows hostility toward others.
  • "Hateth" (שָׂנֵא, sane): This is a strong word for hate, not just dislike. The verse connects lying directly to an attitude of hatred, not neutrality or indifference.
  • "Afflicted" (דָּכָא, daka): This word can mean "crushed" or "brought low." The verse is not just talking about minor inconvenience but real harm done to people.
  • "Flattering" (חָלַק, chalaq): This word means smooth or slippery. A flattering mouth is not sincere but manipulative, leading to "ruin" rather than good.

Why Proverbs 26:28 matters

  • Proverbs 26:28 clarifies that lying and flattery are not harmless social tools but actions that reveal deeper problems of character and intent.
  • The verse emphasizes that words can be weapons, causing suffering and even destruction, not just discomfort or annoyance.
  • In the context of Proverbs 26, which discusses various kinds of foolish and harmful behavior, this verse highlights the seriousness of deceitful speech compared to other forms of folly.

Where else these words appear

“afflicted” Hebrew H1790 · used in 4 verses

  • Psalms 9:9 The LORD also will be a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble.
  • Psalms 10:18 To judge the fatherless and the oppressed, that the man of the earth may no more oppress.
  • Psalms 74:21 O let not the oppressed return ashamed: let the poor and needy praise thy name.

“flattering” Hebrew H2509 · used in 4 verses

  • Genesis 27:11 And Jacob said to Rebekah his mother, Behold, Esau my brother is a hairy man, and I am a smooth man:
  • Proverbs 5:3 For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:
  • Ezekiel 12:24 For there shall be no more any vain vision nor flattering divination within the house of Israel.

“lying” Hebrew H8267 · used in 109 verses

  • Exodus 5:9 Let there more work be laid upon the men, that they may labour therein; and let them not regard vain words.
  • Psalms 144:8 Whose mouth speaketh vanity, and their right hand is a right hand of falsehood.
  • Jeremiah 8:8 How do ye say, We are wise, and the law of the LORD is with us? Lo, certainly in vain made he it; the pen of the scribes is in vain.

“tongue” Hebrew H3956 · used in 115 verses

  • Genesis 10:5 By these were the isles of the Gentiles divided in their lands; every one after his tongue, after their families, in their nations.
  • Psalms 39:3 My heart was hot within me, while I was musing the fire burned: then spake I with my tongue,
  • Proverbs 25:15 By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.