Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like unto him.

PROVERBS 26:4KJV
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What does Proverbs 26:4 mean?

Proverbs 26:4 warns against responding to a foolish person in the same foolish way they are speaking or acting, because doing so can make you resemble them in your behavior. The verse cautions that engaging with a fool on their terms can pull you down to their level.

In the book of Proverbs, these sayings are collected as wisdom for everyday life, often attributed to Solomon. Here, the advice is directed to anyone who might be tempted to argue or debate with someone acting foolishly. The key idea is that not every challenge or provocation deserves a direct answer, especially if it means copying the foolishness being displayed.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 26:4

  • "Answer" (עָנָה, ‘anah, H6030) means to respond or reply. The word here highlights that the focus is on how one chooses to respond, not just whether to respond at all.
  • "Fool" (כְּסִיל, kesil, H3684) refers to someone who is stubborn, lacking sense, or unwilling to learn. This is not just someone who is uninformed, but someone who resists wisdom.
  • "Folly" (אִוֶּלֶת, ivvelet, H200) is the behavior or thinking that is senseless or morally lacking. The verse is warning against mirroring this kind of behavior.
  • "Like" (שָׁוָה, shavah, H7737) means to become similar or to resemble. The concern is that by answering in the same foolish way, you end up looking just like the fool.

Why Proverbs 26:4 matters

  • Proverbs 26:4 helps clarify that wisdom sometimes means refusing to engage, especially when the engagement would lower your own standards or dignity.
  • The verse is paired with Proverbs 26:5, which gives the opposite advice, showing that wisdom involves discernment about when and how to respond.
  • This proverb challenges the idea that every argument or foolish statement deserves a reply, highlighting the value of restraint and self-control.