Reproach hath broken my heart; and I am full of heaviness: and I looked for some to take pity, but there was none; and for comforters, but I found none.

PSALMS 69:20KJV
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What does Psalms 69:20 mean?

Psalms 69:20 describes a person deeply wounded by the contempt of others and left without the kindness he hoped for. The speaker’s pain is not only about what people have said or done to him; it is sharpened by the absence of anyone willing to stand with him.

The picture of a broken heart expresses an inward injury caused by public shame. After addressing God about his suffering in verse 19, the speaker describes his fruitless search for pity and comfort.

The Hebrew behind Psalms 69:20

  • “Reproach” — חֶרְפָּה (ḥerpah): This word carries the sense of disgrace or scorn. It points to the shame brought on the speaker by others, not merely to private sadness.
  • “heart” — לֵב (lev): In Hebrew, the heart can refer to a person’s inner life, including thoughts and feelings. Its breaking pictures a wound to the speaker’s whole inner self.
  • “pity” — נוּד (nud): This word can carry the sense of showing sympathy or sharing someone’s grief. The speaker looks for a person who will respond to his distress with fellow feeling.

Why Psalms 69:20 matters

  • The speaker addresses God while describing human abandonment. In verse 19 he says that God knows his reproach and shame, while verse 20 says he found no human comforters.
  • The search for comfort makes the cruelty in the next verse more striking. Instead of receiving the help he sought, the speaker says that others gave him gall for food and vinegar for his thirst.

Where else these words appear

“pity” Hebrew H5110 · used in 24 verses

  • Genesis 4:12 When thou tillest the ground, it shall not henceforth yield unto thee her strength; a fugitive and a vagabond shalt thou be in the earth.
  • Psalms 36:11 Let not the foot of pride come against me, and let not the hand of the wicked remove me.
  • Jeremiah 22:10 Weep ye not for the dead, neither bemoan him: but weep sore for him that goeth away: for he shall return no more, nor see his native country.

“looked” Hebrew H6960 · used in 45 verses

  • Genesis 1:9 And God said, Let the waters under the heaven be gathered together unto one place, and let the dry land appear: and it was so.
  • Psalms 40:1 To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David. I waited patiently for the LORD; and he inclined unto me, and heard my cry.
  • Isaiah 49:23 And kings shall be thy nursing fathers, and their queens thy nursing mothers: they shall bow down to thee with their face toward the earth, and lick up the dust of thy feet; and thou shalt know that I am the LORD: for they shall not be ashamed that wait for me.

“Reproach” Hebrew H2781 · used in 72 verses

  • Genesis 30:23 And she conceived, and bare a son; and said, God hath taken away my reproach:
  • Psalms 74:22 Arise, O God, plead thine own cause: remember how the foolish man reproacheth thee daily.
  • Jeremiah 42:18 For thus saith the LORD of hosts, the God of Israel; As mine anger and my fury hath been poured forth upon the inhabitants of Jerusalem; so shall my fury be poured forth upon you, when ye shall enter into Egypt: and ye shall be an execration, and an astonishment, and a curse, and a reproach; and ye shall see this place no more.

“comforters” Hebrew H5162 · used in 100 verses

  • Genesis 5:29 And he called his name Noah, saying, This same shall comfort us concerning our work and toil of our hands, because of the ground which the LORD hath cursed.
  • Job 29:25 I chose out their way, and sat chief, and dwelt as a king in the army, as one that comforteth the mourners.
  • Jeremiah 18:10 If it do evil in my sight, that it obey not my voice, then I will repent of the good, wherewith I said I would benefit them.