As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated.

ROMANS 9:13KJV
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What does Romans 9:13 mean?

Romans 9:13 says that God expressed love for Jacob but rejection toward Esau, quoting an earlier Scripture to highlight a difference in how God related to these two brothers. This verse is used to show that God's choices are not based on human effort or merit, but on His own purposes.

Paul, the writer of Romans, is speaking to believers in Rome about God's freedom to choose whom He will work through in history. He quotes from the Old Testament (Malachi 1:2-3) to illustrate that God's relationship with people or nations can be different, even among close relatives like Jacob and Esau. This is part of a larger discussion about God's promises and how they unfold through history.

The Greek behind Romans 9:13

  • ἠγάπησα (ēgapēsa, "loved"): This word comes from the verb meaning "to love" in a committed or purposeful way, not just an emotion. In this context, it points to God's choice or favor toward Jacob.
  • ἐμίσησα (emisēsa, "hated"): This Greek word means "to hate" or "to reject." Here, it is often understood as expressing rejection or not choosing, rather than personal animosity. It highlights a contrast in how God acted toward Esau compared to Jacob.

Why Romans 9:13 matters

  • Romans 9:13 helps clear up that the verse is not about personal feelings but about God's choices in history, especially regarding the ancestors of Israel.
  • The verse emphasizes that God's plans are not based on human standards of fairness or effort, but on His own purposes and promises.
  • Understanding this verse in its context helps make sense of the larger discussion in Romans 9 about God's faithfulness to His promises and how He works through different people and nations.

Where else these words appear

“Esau” Greek G2269 · used in 3 verses

  • Hebrews 11:20 By faith Isaac blessed Jacob and Esau concerning things to come.
  • Hebrews 12:16 Lest there be any fornicator, or profane person, as Esau, who for one morsel of meat sold his birthright.

“Jacob” Greek G2384 · used in 25 verses

  • Matthew 1:2 Abraham begat Isaac; and Isaac begat Jacob; and Jacob begat Judas and his brethren;
  • Luke 13:28 There shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth, when ye shall see Abraham, and Isaac, and Jacob, and all the prophets, in the kingdom of God, and you yourselves thrust out.
  • Acts 7:14 Then sent Joseph, and called his father Jacob to him, and all his kindred, threescore and fifteen souls.

“hated” Greek G3404 · used in 38 verses

  • Matthew 5:43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.
  • Luke 19:14 But his citizens hated him, and sent a message after him, saying, We will not have this man to reign over us.
  • Ephesians 5:29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:

“loved” Greek G25 · used in 109 verses

  • Matthew 5:43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.
  • John 15:9 As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.
  • 2 Timothy 4:8 Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, shall give me at that day: and not to me only, but unto all them also that love his appearing.