And it was so, that when any man came nigh to him to do him obeisance, he put forth his hand, and took him, and kissed him.

2 SAMUEL 15:5KJV
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What does 2 Samuel 15:5 mean?

2 Samuel 15:5 describes how Absalom greeted anyone who came near to show him respect by reaching out, taking hold of the person, and kissing him. This verse shows Absalom’s warm and personal approach to those who came to him, making himself seem friendly and approachable.

In the story, Absalom is standing at the gate of Jerusalem as people come to seek judgment from King David. Instead of acting like a distant royal, Absalom personally welcomes each person, breaking social barriers by touching and kissing them. This behavior is part of Absalom’s effort to win the hearts of the people and build support for himself.

The Hebrew behind 2 Samuel 15:5

  • The word for "obeisance" is שָׁחָה (shachah), which means to bow down or show deep respect. This shows that people were coming to Absalom as they would to someone of high status, expecting to show him honor.
  • The word for "took" is חָזַק (chazaq), which means to seize or grasp firmly. Absalom’s action was not just a casual handshake; he deliberately took hold of each person, making the greeting personal and memorable.
  • The word for "kissed" is נָשַׁק (nashaq), often used for a greeting kiss in the ancient world. This was a sign of favor and acceptance, making people feel valued by Absalom.

Why 2 Samuel 15:5 matters

  • This verse highlights how Absalom used personal warmth and attention to gain popularity and political support, setting the stage for his attempt to take the throne from his father, David.
  • The details about Absalom’s actions help explain why the people’s loyalty shifted toward him; he made them feel important and welcomed, unlike the more formal and distant royal court.
  • Understanding these gestures in their cultural context shows that Absalom’s actions were calculated and strategic, not just friendly, revealing his ambition and manipulation.

Where else these words appear

“kissed” Hebrew H5401 · used in 35 verses

  • Genesis 27:26 And his father Isaac said unto him, Come near now, and kiss me, my son.
  • Exodus 4:27 And the LORD said to Aaron, Go into the wilderness to meet Moses. And he went, and met him in the mount of God, and kissed him.
  • 1 Chronicles 12:2 They were armed with bows, and could use both the right hand and the left in hurling stones and shooting arrows out of a bow, even of Saul's brethren of Benjamin.