Let my lord, I pray thee, pass over before his servant: and I will lead on softly, according as the cattle that goeth before me and the children be able to endure, until I come unto my lord unto Seir.

GENESIS 33:14KJV
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What does Genesis 33:14 mean?

Genesis 33:14 shows Jacob asking Esau to go ahead of him on their journey, explaining that he will travel more slowly to accommodate the young children and the livestock. Jacob promises to eventually meet Esau in Seir, but he wants to move at a pace that is safe for his family and animals.

In this verse, Jacob is speaking to his brother Esau after their reunion. Jacob refers to himself as Esau’s servant and calls Esau “my lord,” showing respect and humility. The situation is delicate, as Jacob is trying to avoid conflict and ensure his family’s safety. Jacob’s mention of moving “softly” highlights his concern for the well-being of the children and animals, and his careful approach to reuniting with Esau.

The Hebrew behind Genesis 33:14

  • The word “softly” comes from לְאִטִּי (le’itti), which means gently or at a slow, careful pace. This emphasizes Jacob’s concern for not pushing the children or livestock too hard.
  • The word for “servant” is עֶבֶד (ʿeved), which Jacob uses to refer to himself, showing humility and deference to Esau.
  • The phrase “before” uses פָּנִים (panim), meaning “face” or “in front of,” highlighting the physical and social distance Jacob wants to maintain.
  • The word “Seir” (שֵׂעִיר, Se‘ir) is the region where Esau lives, so Jacob’s promise to come there is a gesture of goodwill, though later verses suggest he may not have intended to go directly.

Why Genesis 33:14 matters

  • This verse clarifies Jacob’s cautious approach in dealing with Esau after years of estrangement, showing his desire to avoid any renewed conflict.
  • The language Jacob uses—calling Esau “my lord” and himself “servant”—shows the depth of his humility and his effort to restore peace.
  • Jacob’s concern for the children and livestock reveals his sense of responsibility as a leader and caretaker, not just a brother.

Where else these words appear

“softly” Hebrew H328 · used in 6 verses

  • 2 Samuel 18:5 And the king commanded Joab and Abishai and Ittai, saying, Deal gently for my sake with the young man, even with Absalom. And all the people heard when the king gave all the captains charge concerning Absalom.
  • 1 Kings 21:27 And it came to pass, when Ahab heard those words, that he rent his clothes, and put sackcloth upon his flesh, and fasted, and lay in sackcloth, and went softly.
  • Isaiah 8:6 Forasmuch as this people refuseth the waters of Shiloah that go softly, and rejoice in Rezin and Remaliah's son;

“on” Hebrew H5095 · used in 10 verses

  • Genesis 47:17 And they brought their cattle unto Joseph: and Joseph gave them bread in exchange for horses, and for the flocks, and for the cattle of the herds, and for the asses: and he fed them with bread for all their cattle for that year.
  • 2 Chronicles 32:22 Thus the LORD saved Hezekiah and the inhabitants of Jerusalem from the hand of Sennacherib the king of Assyria, and from the hand of all other, and guided them on every side.
  • Isaiah 40:11 He shall feed his flock like a shepherd: he shall gather the lambs with his arm, and carry them in his bosom, and shall gently lead those that are with young.

“Seir” Hebrew H8165 · used in 38 verses

  • Genesis 14:6 And the Horites in their mount Seir, unto Elparan, which is by the wilderness.
  • Deuteronomy 2:4 And command thou the people, saying, Ye are to pass through the coast of your brethren the children of Esau, which dwell in Seir; and they shall be afraid of you: take ye good heed unto yourselves therefore:
  • 1 Chronicles 1:38 And the sons of Seir; Lotan, and Shobal, and Zibeon, and Anah, and Dishon, and Ezer, and Dishan.

“children” Hebrew H3206 · used in 76 verses

  • Genesis 4:23 And Lamech said unto his wives, Adah and Zillah, Hear my voice; ye wives of Lamech, hearken unto my speech: for I have slain a man to my wounding, and a young man to my hurt.
  • Exodus 21:22 If men strive, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart from her, and yet no mischief follow: he shall be surely punished, according as the woman's husband will lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine.
  • 2 Chronicles 10:14 And answered them after the advice of the young men, saying, My father made your yoke heavy, but I will add thereto: my father chastised you with whips, but I will chastise you with scorpions.