Then said he also to him that bade him, When thou makest a dinner or a supper, call not thy friends, nor thy brethren, neither thy kinsmen, nor thy rich neighbours; lest they also bid thee again, and a recompence be made thee.

LUKE 14:12KJV
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What does Luke 14:12 mean?

Luke 14:12 records Jesus telling his host not to invite only friends, family, or wealthy neighbors when hosting a meal, because those people can repay the favor. Instead, Jesus is challenging the common social practice of inviting people who can benefit you in return, highlighting a different kind of generosity.

In this scene, Jesus is speaking to a Pharisee who had invited him to a meal, and he addresses the host directly. The verse comes as part of a larger conversation about humility and selfless giving. Jesus points out that true hospitality is not about social payback or building connections for personal gain, but about giving without expecting anything in return.

The Greek behind Luke 14:12

  • "ἀνταποκαλέσωσιν" (antapokalesōsin, "bid thee again"): This word means to invite back or return the invitation. Jesus uses it to highlight the typical expectation of reciprocal hospitality in that culture.
  • "ἀνταπόδομα" (antapodoma, "recompence"): This word means repayment or reward. Jesus warns that if you only invite those who can repay you, your reward is limited to what they give back, rather than something greater or more meaningful.

Why Luke 14:12 matters

  • Luke 14:12 challenges the idea that generosity should be motivated by the hope of getting something in return, which was a common social expectation in Jesus’ time.
  • This verse sets up the teaching that follows, where Jesus encourages inviting those who cannot repay—such as the poor or disabled—emphasizing selfless kindness.
  • Understanding this verse helps clarify that Jesus is not just giving etiquette advice, but is calling for a radical rethinking of what true generosity and hospitality look like.

Where else these words appear

“recompence” Greek G468 · used in 2 verses

  • Romans 11:9 And David saith, Let their table be made a snare, and a trap, and a stumblingblock, and a recompence unto them:

“dinner” Greek G712 · used in 3 verses

  • Matthew 22:4 Again, he sent forth other servants, saying, Tell them which are bidden, Behold, I have prepared my dinner: my oxen and my fatlings are killed, and all things are ready: come unto the marriage.
  • Luke 11:38 And when the Pharisee saw it, he marvelled that he had not first washed before dinner.

“neighbours” Greek G1069 · used in 4 verses

  • Luke 15:6 And when he cometh home, he calleth together his friends and neighbours, saying unto them, Rejoice with me; for I have found my sheep which was lost.
  • Luke 15:9 And when she hath found it, she calleth her friends and her neighbours together, saying, Rejoice with me; for I have found the piece which I had lost.
  • John 9:8 The neighbours therefore, and they which before had seen him that he was blind, said, Is not this he that sat and begged?

“kinsmen” Greek G4773 · used in 12 verses

  • Mark 6:4 But Jesus said unto them, A prophet is not without honour, but in his own country, and among his own kin, and in his own house.
  • Luke 2:44 But they, supposing him to have been in the company, went a day's journey; and they sought him among their kinsfolk and acquaintance.
  • Romans 9:3 For I could wish that myself were accursed from Christ for my brethren, my kinsmen according to the flesh: