Better is a dinner of herbs where love is, than a stalled ox and hatred therewith.

PROVERBS 15:17KJV
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What does Proverbs 15:17 mean?

Proverbs 15:17 says that a simple meal with love is better than a rich feast where there is hatred. The verse points out that the quality of relationships matters more than the quality of food or material wealth.

This proverb comes from the book of Proverbs, a collection of wise sayings traditionally attributed to Solomon. The verse uses the image of a "dinner of herbs"—a very modest meal—to show that love and harmony in a home are more valuable than having plenty to eat ("a stalled ox") if there is strife or hatred among those sharing the meal.

The Hebrew behind Proverbs 15:17

  • "Better" (טוֹב, tov): This word means "good" or "better" and highlights a comparison, stressing that one situation is preferable to another, not just different.
  • "Dinner" (אֲרוּחָה, aruchah): This word refers to a meal, often a simple one, emphasizing the ordinariness of the food.
  • "Herbs" (יָרָק, yarak): This means "vegetables" or "greens," pointing to a humble, inexpensive meal.
  • "Love" (אַהֲבָה, ahavah): This word means "love" in the sense of affection or warm relationships, showing that emotional connection is the focus.
  • "Stalled" (אָבוּס, avus): This describes an animal that is well-fed or fattened, suggesting abundance or luxury.
  • "Ox" (שׁוֹר, shor): The ox was a valuable animal, and eating it would be a sign of a feast or wealth.
  • "Hatred" (שִׂנְאָה, sin'ah): This word means "hatred" or deep dislike, making clear that conflict or animosity is present.

Why Proverbs 15:17 matters

  • Proverbs 15:17 corrects the idea that material abundance guarantees happiness, showing that peace and love in relationships are more important than wealth.
  • The verse highlights a common theme in Proverbs: the value of inner qualities (like love) over outward appearances or possessions.
  • By contrasting a poor meal with a rich one, Proverbs 15:17 helps the reader see that the atmosphere at the table—whether loving or hateful—shapes the true quality of life.

Where else these words appear

“stalled” Hebrew H75 · used in 2 verses

  • 1 Kings 4:23 Ten fat oxen, and twenty oxen out of the pastures, and an hundred sheep, beside harts, and roebucks, and fallowdeer, and fatted fowl.

“dinner” Hebrew H737 · used in 4 verses

  • 2 Kings 25:30 And his allowance was a continual allowance given him of the king, a daily rate for every day, all the days of his life.
  • Jeremiah 40:5 Now while he was not yet gone back, he said, Go back also to Gedaliah the son of Ahikam the son of Shaphan, whom the king of Babylon hath made governor over the cities of Judah, and dwell with him among the people: or go wheresoever it seemeth convenient unto thee to go. So the captain of the guard gave him victuals and a reward, and let him go.
  • Jeremiah 52:34 And for his diet, there was a continual diet given him of the king of Babylon, every day a portion until the day of his death, all the days of his life.

“herbs” Hebrew H3419 · used in 5 verses

  • Deuteronomy 11:10 For the land, whither thou goest in to possess it, is not as the land of Egypt, from whence ye came out, where thou sowedst thy seed, and wateredst it with thy foot, as a garden of herbs:
  • 1 Kings 21:2 And Ahab spake unto Naboth, saying, Give me thy vineyard, that I may have it for a garden of herbs, because it is near unto my house: and I will give thee for it a better vineyard than it; or, if it seem good to thee, I will give thee the worth of it in money.
  • 2 Kings 19:26 Therefore their inhabitants were of small power, they were dismayed and confounded; they were as the grass of the field, and as the green herb, as the grass on the housetops, and as corn blasted before it be grown up.

“hatred” Hebrew H8135 · used in 16 verses

  • Numbers 35:20 But if he thrust him of hatred, or hurl at him by laying of wait, that he die;
  • Psalms 109:3 They compassed me about also with words of hatred; and fought against me without a cause.
  • Proverbs 26:26 Whose hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness shall be shewed before the whole congregation.