I was a reproach among all mine enemies, but especially among my neighbours, and a fear to mine acquaintance: they that did see me without fled from me.

PSALMS 31:11KJV
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What does Psalms 31:11 mean?

Psalms 31:11 describes how the writer, feeling abandoned and disgraced, became an object of shame and fear not only to enemies but also to neighbors and acquaintances, who avoided and even fled from him. The verse shows the depth of the psalmist’s isolation and the social rejection he experienced.

King David is speaking in this psalm, praying to God during a time of personal distress. He shares how his troubles made him a "reproach"—someone looked down on—by everyone around him, not just those who were already against him. Even people who knew him or lived nearby wanted nothing to do with him, highlighting how completely alone and rejected he felt.

The Hebrew behind Psalms 31:11

  • "reproach" (חֶרְפָּה, cherpah): This word means disgrace or shame. David is not just disliked but seen as someone to be avoided or looked down on, which intensifies his sense of isolation.
  • "fear" (פַּחַד, pachad): This word means dread or terror. David’s acquaintances were not just indifferent but actually afraid to be associated with him, suggesting his situation was seen as dangerous or shameful to others.
  • "acquaintance" (יָדַע, yada‘): This word often means someone who knows another, not just strangers. Even those with some relationship to David distanced themselves, showing the depth of his social rejection.
  • "fled" (נָדַד, nadad): This word means to run away or scatter. People actively avoided David, not just ignoring him but going out of their way to escape his presence.

Why Psalms 31:11 matters

  • The verse makes clear that David’s suffering was not only from open enemies but also from the loss of support among friends and neighbors, deepening the sense of abandonment.
  • The language highlights how shame and fear can isolate someone even from those who should be supportive, adding emotional weight to David’s prayer.
  • This verse connects to the larger theme of Psalms 31, where David turns to God as his only refuge when all human support has failed, emphasizing trust in God during total isolation.

Where else these words appear

“neighbours” Hebrew H7934 · used in 20 verses

  • Exodus 3:22 But every woman shall borrow of her neighbour, and of her that sojourneth in her house, jewels of silver, and jewels of gold, and raiment: and ye shall put them upon your sons, and upon your daughters; and ye shall spoil the Egyptians.
  • Psalms 79:4 We are become a reproach to our neighbours, a scorn and derision to them that are round about us.
  • Jeremiah 6:21 Therefore thus saith the LORD, Behold, I will lay stumblingblocks before this people, and the fathers and the sons together shall fall upon them; the neighbour and his friend shall perish.

“fled” Hebrew H5074 · used in 26 verses

  • Genesis 31:40 Thus I was; in the day the drought consumed me, and the frost by night; and my sleep departed from mine eyes.
  • Psalms 68:12 Kings of armies did flee apace: and she that tarried at home divided the spoil.
  • Isaiah 22:3 All thy rulers are fled together, they are bound by the archers: all that are found in thee are bound together, which have fled from far.

“fear” Hebrew H6343 · used in 48 verses

  • Genesis 31:42 Except the God of my father, the God of Abraham, and the fear of Isaac, had been with me, surely thou hadst sent me away now empty. God hath seen mine affliction and the labour of my hands, and rebuked thee yesternight.
  • Job 3:25 For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me.
  • Psalms 119:120 My flesh trembleth for fear of thee; and I am afraid of thy judgments.

“enemies” Hebrew H6887 · used in 56 verses

  • Exodus 12:34 And the people took their dough before it was leavened, their kneadingtroughs being bound up in their clothes upon their shoulders.
  • 2 Chronicles 6:28 If there be dearth in the land, if there be pestilence, if there be blasting, or mildew, locusts, or caterpillers; if their enemies besiege them in the cities of their land; whatsoever sore or whatsoever sickness there be:
  • Psalms 69:19 Thou hast known my reproach, and my shame, and my dishonour: mine adversaries are all before thee.