Stay me with flagons, comfort me with apples: for I am sick of love.

SONG OF SOLOMON 2:5KJV
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What does Song of Solomon 2:5 mean?

Song of Solomon 2:5 describes the speaker asking for physical refreshment—specifically flagons (cakes of raisins or wine) and apples—because she feels overwhelmed and faint with love. The verse uses the language of lovesickness to express intense longing and emotional vulnerability.

In this scene, the woman is speaking, likely to her beloved or to those around her, during a moment of deep emotional intensity. The request for flagons and apples is a poetic way of asking for comfort and strength, as her feelings of love are so strong they make her feel physically weak. The verse uses vivid, sensory images to capture the powerful effect that love has on her body and spirit.

The Hebrew behind Song of Solomon 2:5

  • "Stay" (סָמַךְ, samakh) means to support or sustain. Here, it suggests the woman is asking to be upheld or steadied, not just emotionally but physically.
  • "Flagons" (אֲשִׁישׁוֹת, ashisot) refers to raisin cakes or possibly wine, foods associated with celebration and vitality in ancient Israel. This adds a layer of seeking both comfort and restoration.
  • "Comfort" (רָפַד, rafad) means to spread or lay out, often connected to making someone comfortable or providing rest. The woman’s request is for tangible comfort, not just soothing words.
  • "Sick" (חָלָה, chalah) is the word for being weak or ill, here paired with "love" (אַהֲבָה, ahavah) to describe a lovesickness—a real, physical reaction to deep longing.

Why Song of Solomon 2:5 matters

  • The verse clarifies that the emotional experience of love in the Song of Solomon is so intense it affects the body, not just the mind or heart.
  • The request for specific foods ties the experience of love to everyday, physical realities, grounding the poetry in tangible life.
  • This moment connects to the wider theme of the Song, where love is portrayed as powerful, overwhelming, and even disruptive, not merely pleasant or easy.

Where else these words appear

“comfort” Hebrew H7502 · used in 3 verses

  • Job 17:13 If I wait, the grave is mine house: I have made my bed in the darkness.
  • Job 41:30 Sharp stones are under him: he spreadeth sharp pointed things upon the mire.

“flagons” Hebrew H809 · used in 4 verses

  • 2 Samuel 6:19 And he dealt among all the people, even among the whole multitude of Israel, as well to the women as men, to every one a cake of bread, and a good piece of flesh, and a flagon of wine. So all the people departed every one to his house.
  • 1 Chronicles 16:3 And he dealt to every one of Israel, both man and woman, to every one a loaf of bread, and a good piece of flesh, and a flagon of wine.
  • Hosea 3:1 Then said the LORD unto me, Go yet, love a woman beloved of her friend, yet an adulteress, according to the love of the LORD toward the children of Israel, who look to other gods, and love flagons of wine.

“apples” Hebrew H8598 · used in 6 verses

  • Proverbs 25:11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.
  • Song of Solomon 2:3 As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
  • Song of Solomon 8:5 Who is this that cometh up from the wilderness, leaning upon her beloved? I raised thee up under the apple tree: there thy mother brought thee forth: there she brought thee forth that bare thee.

“love” Hebrew H160 · used in 37 verses

  • Genesis 29:20 And Jacob served seven years for Rachel; and they seemed unto him but a few days, for the love he had to her.
  • Proverbs 10:12 Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.
  • Song of Solomon 8:4 I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, until he please.