But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.

1 CORINTHIANS 7:36KJV
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What does 1 Corinthians 7:36 mean?

1 Corinthians 7:36 says that if a man feels he is not acting properly toward his fiancée (referred to as "his virgin") and she is getting older, and if circumstances require it, he is not sinning if he allows them to marry. The verse gives permission for marriage in situations where it seems necessary, especially if waiting longer would be inappropriate.

Paul is writing to the Corinthians, addressing questions about marriage and singleness. In this verse, Paul recognizes that sometimes engagement or betrothal can become difficult if the woman is past the usual age for marriage, and he reassures that choosing marriage in such cases is not sinful. The advice is practical, allowing for flexibility based on personal situations.

The Greek behind 1 Corinthians 7:36

  • "Uncomely" (ἀσχημονέω, aschēmoneō) means behaving in a way that is improper or not fitting. Here, it refers to a man feeling he is not treating his fiancée appropriately by delaying marriage.
  • "Virgin" (παρθένος, parthenos) is used for an unmarried woman, specifically the man's betrothed. The word highlights the cultural expectation of marriage for women of a certain age.
  • "Pass the flower of her age" (ὑπέρακμος, huperakmos) refers to a woman being past the prime age for marriage. This detail helps explain why delaying marriage might be considered improper.
  • "Let them marry" (γαμέω, gameō) is a straightforward term for entering into marriage, emphasizing that such a decision is permitted and not sinful in this context.

Why 1 Corinthians 7:36 matters

  • This verse clarifies that marriage is not sinful, even if it happens because of practical or social pressures, countering any idea that singleness is always the higher or only spiritual path.
  • The verse shows Paul's sensitivity to real-life situations and cultural expectations, allowing for personal judgment rather than imposing a rigid rule.
  • 1 Corinthians 7:36 fits into Paul's larger discussion about marriage, singleness, and personal conscience, showing that Christian life allows for flexibility based on individual needs and circumstances.

Where else these words appear

“uncomely” Greek G807 · used in 2 verses

  • 1 Corinthians 13:5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

“virgin” Greek G3933 · used in 13 verses

  • Matthew 1:23 Behold, a virgin shall be with child, and shall bring forth a son, and they shall call his name Emmanuel, which being interpreted is, God with us.
  • Luke 1:27 To a virgin espoused to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David; and the virgin's name was Mary.
  • 1 Corinthians 7:34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.

“think” Greek G3543 · used in 15 verses

  • Matthew 5:17 Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfil.
  • Luke 3:23 And Jesus himself began to be about thirty years of age, being(as was supposed) the son of Joseph, which was the son of Heli,
  • Acts 16:27 And the keeper of the prison awaking out of his sleep, and seeing the prison doors open, he drew out his sword, and would have killed himself, supposing that the prisoners had been fled.

“marry” Greek G1060 · used in 25 verses

  • Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
  • Mark 10:12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
  • 1 Corinthians 7:10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: