So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better.

1 CORINTHIANS 7:38KJV
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What does 1 Corinthians 7:38 mean?

1 Corinthians 7:38 says that a person who allows his daughter (or a woman under his care) to marry is doing a good thing, but someone who chooses not to give her in marriage is doing even better. The verse highlights that both choices are honorable, but one is considered preferable in this context.

Paul is writing to the Corinthian church, answering questions about marriage and singleness during a time of distress or uncertainty. He reassures those making decisions about marriage that allowing marriage is good, but choosing singleness can be even better, especially in light of the situation they were facing.

The Greek behind 1 Corinthians 7:38

  • καλῶς (kalōs, "well"): This word means "well" or "rightly," and it emphasizes that giving someone in marriage is a positive, honorable action.
  • κρεῖσσον (kreisson, "better"): This word means "better" or "more advantageous." Paul uses it to show that, in the specific circumstances he is addressing, remaining unmarried may have certain benefits or be more fitting.
  • γαμίζω (gamizō, "marriage"/"giveth in marriage"): This word refers to arranging or giving someone in marriage. The focus is on the decision made by a guardian or parent, not the person marrying themselves.

Why 1 Corinthians 7:38 matters

  • This verse clarifies that both marriage and singleness are respected choices in the Christian life, countering any idea that one is sinful or shameful.
  • Paul’s advice is shaped by the particular challenges facing the Corinthian believers, showing that practical wisdom and circumstances can influence what is “better.”
  • The verse fits into a larger discussion about devotion to God and practical concerns, reminding readers that personal situations can affect what is wisest or most beneficial.

Where else these words appear

“better” Greek G2908 · used in 2 verses

  • Philippians 1:23 For I am in a strait betwixt two, having a desire to depart, and to be with Christ; which is far better:

“marriage” Greek G1547 · used in 4 verses

  • Matthew 22:30 For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven.
  • Matthew 24:38 For as in the days that were before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day that Noe entered into the ark,
  • Luke 17:27 They did eat, they drank, they married wives, they were given in marriage, until the day that Noe entered into the ark, and the flood came, and destroyed them all.

“well” Greek G2573 · used in 36 verses

  • Matthew 5:44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
  • Luke 20:39 Then certain of the scribes answering said, Master, thou hast well said.
  • Galatians 5:7 Ye did run well; who did hinder you that ye should not obey the truth?

“So” Greek G5620 · used in 83 verses

  • Matthew 8:24 And, behold, there arose a great tempest in the sea, insomuch that the ship was covered with the waves: but he was asleep.
  • Mark 15:5 But Jesus yet answered nothing; so that Pilate marvelled.
  • 1 Corinthians 13:2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.