But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.

1 CORINTHIANS 7:9KJV
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What does 1 Corinthians 7:9 mean?

1 Corinthians 7:9 says that if people are struggling to control their sexual desires, it is better for them to get married than to remain single and be consumed by passion. The verse suggests that marriage is a good and honorable way to address these natural desires.

Paul is writing to the church in Corinth, answering questions about marriage and singleness. He is speaking to those who are unmarried or widowed, acknowledging that not everyone has the same ability to live without sexual intimacy. Paul’s advice is practical, recognizing human weakness and offering marriage as a wise solution rather than expecting everyone to remain single.

The Greek behind 1 Corinthians 7:9

  • The word "contain" (ἐγκρατεύονται, egkrateuontai) means to have self-control or self-restraint. Paul is talking about the ability to control one’s desires, not just outward actions.
  • The word "burn" (πυροῦσθαι, purousthai) is often understood as "burn with passion" or strong desire, not literal fire. This highlights the intensity of the struggle some people face.
  • The word "better" (κρεῖττον, kreitton) shows that Paul is making a comparison, not saying marriage is the only option, but that it is preferable to being overwhelmed by desire.

Why 1 Corinthians 7:9 matters

  • This verse clarifies that Paul does not see marriage as a lesser choice, but as a practical and honorable response to human needs.
  • It helps explain Paul’s balanced view: singleness is good for those who can handle it, but marriage is good for those who cannot.
  • The verse connects to the wider passage by showing Paul’s pastoral care, offering realistic guidance rather than unrealistic expectations for everyone.

Where else these words appear

“they” Greek G1467 · used in 2 verses

  • 1 Corinthians 9:25 And every man that striveth for the mastery is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a corruptible crown; but we an incorruptible.

“burn” Greek G4448 · used in 6 verses

  • 2 Corinthians 11:29 Who is weak, and I am not weak? who is offended, and I burn not?
  • Ephesians 6:16 Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.
  • Revelation 1:15 And his feet like unto fine brass, as if they burned in a furnace; and his voice as the sound of many waters.

“better” Greek G2909 · used in 17 verses

  • 1 Corinthians 11:17 Now in this that I declare unto you I praise you not, that ye come together not for the better, but for the worse.
  • Hebrews 7:19 For the law made nothing perfect, but the bringing in of a better hope did; by the which we draw nigh unto God.
  • Hebrews 11:16 But now they desire a better country, that is, an heavenly: wherefore God is not ashamed to be called their God: for he hath prepared for them a city.

“marry” Greek G1060 · used in 25 verses

  • Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
  • Mark 10:12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
  • 1 Corinthians 7:28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.