And when he was come near unto her, the woman said, Art thou Joab? And he answered, I am he. Then she said unto him, Hear the words of thine handmaid. And he answered, I do hear.

2 SAMUEL 20:17KJV
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What does 2 Samuel 20:17 mean?

2 Samuel 20:17 describes a moment when a wise woman from the city of Abel approaches Joab, the commander of David’s army, to speak with him. She confirms his identity, asks him to listen to her words, and Joab responds that he is listening.

In this scene, Joab has come near the city wall during a tense standoff, and the woman takes the initiative to speak directly with him. The exchange shows her courage and wisdom as she seeks to negotiate and prevent unnecessary bloodshed, setting the stage for the conversation that follows.

The Hebrew behind 2 Samuel 20:17

  • The word "near" (קָרַב, qarav) means to approach or come close. This highlights the physical closeness needed for a private, serious conversation at the city wall.
  • "Hear" (שָׁמַע, shama‘) is used twice: once as the woman’s request for Joab to listen, and again as Joab’s reply that he is indeed listening. This word often means more than just hearing sounds; it carries the sense of truly paying attention and considering what is said.
  • "Handmaid" (אָמָה, ’amah) is a humble way the woman refers to herself, showing respect and perhaps lowering herself to gain a hearing from Joab, even though she is clearly wise and assertive.

Why 2 Samuel 20:17 matters

  • This verse shows the importance of communication and wisdom in tense situations, as the woman steps forward to speak with a powerful military leader.
  • The respectful language and careful approach set a tone that helps de-escalate a potentially violent conflict, showing the power of words and negotiation.
  • The exchange prepares the reader for the pivotal conversation that follows, which will determine the fate of the city and those inside.

Where else these words appear

“handmaid” Hebrew H519 · used in 49 verses

  • Genesis 20:17 So Abraham prayed unto God: and God healed Abimelech, and his wife, and his maidservants; and they bare children.
  • Leviticus 25:44 Both thy bondmen, and thy bondmaids, which thou shalt have, shall be of the heathen that are round about you; of them shall ye buy bondmen and bondmaids.
  • 1 Samuel 25:31 That this shall be no grief unto thee, nor offence of heart unto my lord, either that thou hast shed blood causeless, or that my lord hath avenged himself: but when the LORD shall have dealt well with my lord, then remember thine handmaid.

“Joab” Hebrew H3097 · used in 124 verses

  • 1 Samuel 26:6 Then answered David and said to Ahimelech the Hittite, and to Abishai the son of Zeruiah, brother to Joab, saying, Who will go down with me to Saul to the camp? And Abishai said, I will go down with thee.
  • 2 Samuel 14:21 And the king said unto Joab, Behold now, I have done this thing: go therefore, bring the young man Absalom again.
  • 2 Samuel 24:4 Notwithstanding the king's word prevailed against Joab, and against the captains of the host. And Joab and the captains of the host went out from the presence of the king, to number the people of Israel.