And David came to his house at Jerusalem; and the king took the ten women his concubines, whom he had left to keep the house, and put them in ward, and fed them, but went not in unto them. So they were shut up unto the day of their death, living in widowhood.

2 SAMUEL 20:3KJV
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What does 2 Samuel 20:3 mean?

2 Samuel 20:3 describes how, after returning to Jerusalem, King David separated the ten women who had been his concubines, providing for their needs but no longer having a relationship with them, so they lived out their lives in isolation as widows. This was a direct result of what had happened to them during Absalom’s rebellion.

When David returned to his palace after Absalom’s revolt, he found the ten concubines he had left behind to care for the house. Because Absalom had publicly slept with them, David could not resume his relationship with them according to the customs and expectations of his time. Instead, he ensured they were cared for but kept them apart, and they lived the rest of their lives in seclusion.

The Hebrew behind 2 Samuel 20:3

  • "Put them in ward" uses the Hebrew word מִשְׁמֶרֶת (mishmeret, H4931), which means a place of keeping, custody, or confinement. This word highlights that the women were not simply set aside but were kept under a kind of guarded restriction.
  • "Living in widowhood" comes from the Hebrew word אַלְמְנוּת (almanut, H491), meaning the state of being a widow. This emphasizes that, although their husbands were alive, these women were treated as if they were widows, showing the depth of their isolation and loss.

Why 2 Samuel 20:3 matters

  • This verse clarifies the lasting consequences of Absalom’s actions, not just for David but for the women involved, showing the personal cost of political rebellion.
  • The verse highlights the seriousness with which issues of honor, shame, and purity were handled in ancient Israel, especially regarding royal households.
  • It connects to the wider narrative by showing how David’s family and court continued to feel the ripple effects of his earlier choices and the turmoil within his house.

Where else these words appear

“widowhood” Hebrew H491 · used in 4 verses

  • Genesis 38:14 And she put her widow's garments off from her, and covered her with a vail, and wrapped herself, and sat in an open place, which is by the way to Timnath; for she saw that Shelah was grown, and she was not given unto him to wife.
  • Genesis 38:19 And she arose, and went away, and laid by her vail from her, and put on the garments of her widowhood.
  • Isaiah 54:4 Fear not; for thou shalt not be ashamed: neither be thou confounded; for thou shalt not be put to shame: for thou shalt forget the shame of thy youth, and shalt not remember the reproach of thy widowhood any more.

“concubines” Hebrew H6370 · used in 35 verses

  • Genesis 22:24 And his concubine, whose name was Reumah, she bare also Tebah, and Gaham, and Thahash, and Maachah.
  • Judges 19:27 And her lord rose up in the morning, and opened the doors of the house, and went out to go his way: and, behold, the woman his concubine was fallen down at the door of the house, and her hands were upon the threshold.
  • 2 Samuel 21:11 And it was told David what Rizpah the daughter of Aiah, the concubine of Saul, had done.

“fed” Hebrew H3557 · used in 36 verses

  • Genesis 45:11 And there will I nourish thee; for yet there are five years of famine; lest thou, and thy household, and all that thou hast, come to poverty.
  • 1 Kings 8:64 The same day did the king hallow the middle of the court that was before the house of the LORD: for there he offered burnt offerings, and meat offerings, and the fat of the peace offerings: because the brasen altar that was before the LORD was too little to receive the burnt offerings, and meat offerings, and the fat of the peace offerings.
  • Psalms 112:5 A good man sheweth favour, and lendeth: he will guide his affairs with discretion.

“up” Hebrew H6887 · used in 56 verses

  • Exodus 12:34 And the people took their dough before it was leavened, their kneadingtroughs being bound up in their clothes upon their shoulders.
  • 2 Chronicles 28:22 And in the time of his distress did he trespass yet more against the LORD: this is that king Ahaz.
  • Psalms 69:19 Thou hast known my reproach, and my shame, and my dishonour: mine adversaries are all before thee.